Discussion On coping.

[twojei]

Dear @porco-dddio,

I have read some of your posts and something that I see really appears a lot is the word 'coping'. I would really like to know how it is that you define it. Even though we all know what it is I think that many people might interpret it differently. For some it is about coping with an unfulfilling or diffuclt life through other means of pleasure. For some, it is negating a harsh reality by means of self-distraction.

 

[porco-dddio]

Thanks. The term "coping" has a history inside incel community, specifically after the FBIcels took control (incels.is). At the time, they had an attitude I dubbed "cope breaking". Basically they performatively disilluded each other telling them that their inclinations or methods to resist incelism were false. They called it "cope".

They went around, blaming other people for activities they were doing, enforcing actively the mood of "doomerism". Doomerism is a low morale attitude, you hve to feel bad, loser, that sort of vibe.

If you refused their meme of doomerism, they would call it "cope", and sometimes write it big "COPE" or they also wrote it like this
C
O
P
E

Or other shortcuts. These people came from reddit, go figure. They had very nasty habits.

So, I quickly noticed what was at stake, its a process of problem reaction solution, and at the time they were promoting right wing materials. Like "critique of the west" or sociology of modernity or accelerationism BS, or nazi materials. All these political activations require of you to be low morale, angry and needy. Because to be acceptant of right wing political activation you need to be in that mental state. They want you to be dispossessed and destroyed. This is isnt a "conspiracy theory" I have read it on casaclown (casapound) publications, its a method they are actively engaged in.

So, the only "copes" they permitted were ideological. If you wrote bullshit repetitions derived from accelerationism or if yuo promoted george lincoln rockwell or elliot rodger, they did not call it "cope", they allowed it without questioning. If instead your attitude was different, maybe you talked about going hiking or learning a skill... they would call it "cope".

My reaction was simple, I started to boastfully admit Im coping, and I changed the term meaning. I started to abuse the term, using it everywhere. I repeated it over and over. It had no negative connotation the way I used it. I noticed others did it as well. I also challenged the "cope breakers" to show me their enlightenment, or enter blackpill challenges, lets compare who of us is more disilluded. I think I have more blackpill knowledge than they have.

 

[porco-dddio]

What irritates me is I tried to talk individually to them, like there was an user called "blckpillpres" and he never replied to me. I asked repeatedly what is a "cope". Because on the internet, the term is not treated negatively. Its simply an adaptation mechanism, its a way to rearrange your perceptions around a reality you encountered, simple as.

I dont even know if its incels who invented this nonsense, I seen it used also by trannies who follow 4chan, and they use the term "cope" exactly the same way incels do. This isnt normal. Normal people dont use the term "cope" in that way. Only a "perennially online" (how they would frame it) piece of shit does it.

Trying to improve your situation becomes "cope"
Finding rationality outside the incel group's framework becomes "cope"
Maintaining some level of self respect and morality becomes "cope."
Pursuing hobbies, relationships, fitness, education, or skills becomes "cope"

Besides, I have read it on a publication from casapound 2023, that they want to engage actively in this process, not exactly called "cope breaking" but by their definition it would be a method where they engage purposefully in destructive behavior, so that people may be more acceptant of their "solutions".

The communists also call it "demoralization", even if it has another purpose.

And also from casapound, in an interview (2021) the guy interviewed said "things have to get wrse before they get better", in other words this is another clue. I had the suspect the entire attitude of "cope breaking" was a part of a political activation. And I dont really have "hard evidence". But to be honest is very difficult not to see it.

Just observe their dishonesty and immoral behavior. They frame as "cope" anything that can help you. They allow you to worship criminals, nazis and psyops like nick griftentes, that isnt "cope". They allow only what destroys you. Their moral deficiency is enough to warrant an investigation and a preemptive reaction. They are enemies of the incel.