Discussion Does anyone else think relationships are cope?

No But Modern woman are trash, unworthy of romantic relationships. A good chuck of them want to be in full control of there partner and relationships. I think thats the main reason why you see MTN or lower With HTB because they like having the power over them. Thats not a real romantic relationships just a facade. Most girls want the Notebook love story of meeting a hot guy and "falling". But Only temp because I think deep down they think and know they cant keep him forever, he will want a younger girl one day so they settle and play it safe with a doofus.

Mathiverse said:

People kill themselves over their LTR so i wonder how special it might be

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i can agree i tried to kill myself over my long distance relationship with someone.

Spyteam09 said:

i can agree i tried to kill myself over my long distance relationship with someone.

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Can we hear more about it?

Spyteam09 said:

i can agree i tried to kill myself over my long distance relationship with someone.

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welcome young buck.

tbh this is why boys love is way better and healthier long term unlike heterosexual man to woman relationship.

there’s less of that constant pressure to perform some rigid role or live up to expectations that were never even explained to you. it’s not as transactional or based on what you “provide” vs what you “are.”

it feels more mutual, like both people actually get each other, meet each others emotion needs, just two boys being cute. you can be affectionate, clingy, vulnerable, and it’s not seen as weakness, it’s just normal. it becomes less about proving something and more about actually caring for each other.

with heterosexual dynamics a lot of it ends up feeling like unspoken rules, tests, and power plays. you’re always being evaluated instead of just accepted. even when things are “good” there’s still that underlying tension of needing to act a certain way or you risk losing everything.