We need to stop with this narrative

We need to stop saying that men in their 30s 40s who are fat and bald are naive enough to get betabuxxed. In the reality, they choose themselves that path and know very well that their whore partner is with them just for stability and security with no true love involved.
If you spent enough time with normies you would understand that they are hyprocites, and many times their arguments for a choice they made is far different from the truth.
In this case, saying their wife loves them change their perception of reality even if deep down they know it's not true, basically telling a lie loud many times of a situation you desire ( being trully loved) can hack your brain and change the reality in your brain.
Also being a cuck is better than being involuntary celibate.