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I had jaw surgery and thought that my post surgery face combined with my height would be enough to receive romantic interest if I removed emphasis from my physique which was the focal point of my slaying pre surgery.
I realized that this complacency is something that only works for normies and that as an aspie I have to max out every stat because any romantic interest I receive will be solely due to having rare traits and mogging in as many metrics as possible.
I am 85kg now and around my peak natty strength levels but I got to a point where I was only gymcelling once per week.
I need to return to a point where I am 90-95kg where it is obvious from my shoulder width in clothes that I gymcel.
Women can look at some average height normie with an average body who doesn't gymcel and develop attraction to him because he's a safe option.
As a mogger, even if you find peace with elements of your appearance such as me being content with being 85kg because I'm happy with my post surgery face, this feeling of inner contentment doesn't translate into results because results must come from foids recognizing that you mog other men in physical metrics.
The average normie who's content with being a slob can benefit from his contentment because it allows him to have a carefree, go with the flow attitude which serves as a benefit for his relations with women.
No matter how much you try to achieve this state as an aspie it wont work, I believe you need to reach a state where you genuinely think that additional muscle mass could not possibly benefit you.
In recent years I started to think that diminishing returns sets in as soon as you rid yourself of skinny failo, but I think as an aspie and a tall male, you just have to rinse out everything you can possibly gain from muscle building.
I feel like I am too far away from the standard normie physically to try play things off like I'm a carefree normie and receive any romantic interest for it.
I have to just go all in and not care about the possibility of it looking try hard, I need to be roided again and get tats and basically show that I am doing everything in my power to fuck which foids will recognize.
The whole "you're supposed to look like you mog effortlessly" doesn't work for aspies imo because foids will assume someone with good genes who effortlessly mogs should be effortlessly smooth and charismatic too,
If you had to improve yourself meaning you naturally have no behavioural traits that women look for, you may as well telegraph the fact that you are going all in on your looks in order to fuck
I realized that this complacency is something that only works for normies and that as an aspie I have to max out every stat because any romantic interest I receive will be solely due to having rare traits and mogging in as many metrics as possible.
I am 85kg now and around my peak natty strength levels but I got to a point where I was only gymcelling once per week.
I need to return to a point where I am 90-95kg where it is obvious from my shoulder width in clothes that I gymcel.
Women can look at some average height normie with an average body who doesn't gymcel and develop attraction to him because he's a safe option.
As a mogger, even if you find peace with elements of your appearance such as me being content with being 85kg because I'm happy with my post surgery face, this feeling of inner contentment doesn't translate into results because results must come from foids recognizing that you mog other men in physical metrics.
The average normie who's content with being a slob can benefit from his contentment because it allows him to have a carefree, go with the flow attitude which serves as a benefit for his relations with women.
No matter how much you try to achieve this state as an aspie it wont work, I believe you need to reach a state where you genuinely think that additional muscle mass could not possibly benefit you.
In recent years I started to think that diminishing returns sets in as soon as you rid yourself of skinny failo, but I think as an aspie and a tall male, you just have to rinse out everything you can possibly gain from muscle building.
I feel like I am too far away from the standard normie physically to try play things off like I'm a carefree normie and receive any romantic interest for it.
I have to just go all in and not care about the possibility of it looking try hard, I need to be roided again and get tats and basically show that I am doing everything in my power to fuck which foids will recognize.
The whole "you're supposed to look like you mog effortlessly" doesn't work for aspies imo because foids will assume someone with good genes who effortlessly mogs should be effortlessly smooth and charismatic too,
If you had to improve yourself meaning you naturally have no behavioural traits that women look for, you may as well telegraph the fact that you are going all in on your looks in order to fuck