There's a thought process linked to it
You think about being incel, feel dejected/like a loser and imagine slayers having fun
Because it isn't a socially acceptable issue. Most bottle it in and vent in spaces filled with other bitter people
If being incel was normal(it secretly is). You suffered no blow to social status and felt like you were outcompeting other men in other areas of life however, being incel wouldn't be an issue