Discussion Being incel is an IQ issue

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There's a common assumption that being incel is primarily about physical appearance, but I believe it's largely an IQ issue, unless someone is physically deformed. In my own experience, I used to be considered very unattractive, yet I still managed to get girls. In fact, many of the girls I would hook up with told me I was ugly. But it wasn't about looks, it was about the techniques I used, the mental effort I put in, and the approach I took. Being incel isn't just about looks, it's about knowing how to navigate social dynamics, understanding what works, and putting in the necessary effort. It's an intellectual and psychological game, not simply a matter of genetics or physical appearance.
 
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There's a common assumption that being incel is primarily about physical appearance, but I believe it's largely an IQ issue, unless someone is physically deformed. In my own experience, I used to be considered very unattractive, yet I still managed to get girls. In fact, many of the girls I would hook up with told me I was ugly. But it wasn't about looks, it was about the techniques I used, the mental effort I put in, and the approach I took. Being incel isn't just about looks, it's about knowing how to navigate social dynamics, understanding what works, and putting in the necessary effort. It's an intellectual and psychological game, not simply a matter of genetics or physical appearance.
NT pill is brutal. Although I will admit that looks do indeed play a big roll in dating and you can't deny it. Women are very superficial creatures and care most about looks. Although being NT and social is also important and shouldn't be neglected.
 
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I strongly agree. I've had women attracted to me, but I was too dense to realize it, although to be fair, the ones who're attracted to me weren't my type lol. But in any case I'm confident many incels had women attracted to them at least once in their lives, it's just they likely hadn't noticed it, or they're just volcels who have women into them, just not the ones they want.
 
There's a common assumption that being incel is primarily about physical appearance, but I believe it's largely an IQ issue, unless someone is physically deformed. In my own experience, I used to be considered very unattractive, yet I still managed to get girls. In fact, many of the girls I would hook up with told me I was ugly. But it wasn't about looks, it was about the techniques I used, the mental effort I put in, and the approach I took. Being incel isn't just about looks, it's about knowing how to navigate social dynamics, understanding what works, and putting in the necessary effort. It's an intellectual and psychological game, not simply a matter of genetics or physical appearance.
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There's a common assumption that being incel is primarily about physical appearance, but I believe it's largely an IQ issue, unless someone is physically deformed. In my own experience, I used to be considered very unattractive, yet I still managed to get girls. In fact, many of the girls I would hook up with told me I was ugly. But it wasn't about looks, it was about the techniques I used, the mental effort I put in, and the approach I took. Being incel isn't just about looks, it's about knowing how to navigate social dynamics, understanding what works, and putting in the necessary effort. It's an intellectual and psychological game, not simply a matter of genetics or physical appearance.
Intelligence shall be defined as, a unified process & allocation of mental resources towards an end. What it does not mean is it is not entirely separate process. IQ as I comprehend it, is a score of the efficacy of mental processes.

Now in social situations, we look for specifics of the following:

1. Social cues
2. Social dynamics
3. Our position within groups

Humans have three brains, Mammalian, reptilian and the Neocortex. The mammalian brain is responsible for the social part of our being. As we understand, humans have mating rituals, a mating dance and cues; for the sake of context knowing how one will react and having the ability to predict future behaviors is worth having however not having that ability and only being able to see the immediate will come at a cost & hinderance.

For me personally, I have either been unable to see the cues and in truth I blundered.........
 
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