Brutal example of regret in oldceldom

[6ft4]

Regards himself as the greatest failure to ever walk the planet earth because of the things he could've achieved but didn't
Refers to himself as the "could've been" man

Speaks about having no friends and being alone for decades, not needing friends in his youth since he could chase girls (you are here)
Ends up alone and unmarried

Speaks about how cold his mother was towards him and how he felt when he went to a friend's house and seen how warm his friend's mother was towards his friend.

This makes me question if people with cold, unaffectionate mothers end up as loners unable to connect with anyone properly because the one person who was expected to connect with them unconditionally effectively rejected them (relatable)

 

[jayjay]

This makes me question if people with cold, unaffectionate mothers end up as loners unable to connect with anyone properly because the one person who was expected to connect with them unconditionally effectively rejected them (relatable)

TRUTH NUKE.

No wonder many blackpillers have these kind of cold narcissistic mothers. It all ends up being worse.

What kind of model for relating with women are these young men having in their unconscious? A pretty damaged one. You better fix that shit fast, because the damage will compound over time.

 

[Foidkiller]

People always theorize about bad parent theory simply because if they hated you and malnourished you as a result then of course you are going to be incel jfl some don't even breastfeed their kids fully.

 

[Liquid]

People always theorize about bad parent theory simply because if they hated you and malnourished you as a result then of course you are going to be incel jfl some don't even breastfeed their kids fully.

malnourishment is a part of it at least

 

[GGWP]

People always theorize about bad parent theory simply because if they hated you and malnourished you as a result then of course you are going to be incel jfl some don't even breastfeed their kids fully.

C-Section, MGM and Formula Feeding.
The unholy trifecta of altered development...

 

[newsincerity]

C-Section, MGM and Formula Feeding.
The unholy trifecta of altered development...

what's MGM

 

[MelaninWarlord]

what's MGM

Male genital mutilation

 

[Queen Belle]

what's MGM

 

[newsincerity]

I like her
I want to hang out with her and sex her

 

[OgreLTN]

TRUTH NUKE.

No wonder many blackpillers have these kind of cold narcissistic mothers. It all ends up being worse.

What kind of model for relating with women are these young men having in their unconscious? A pretty damaged one. You better fix that shit fast, because the damage will compound over time.

How can you relate to women when none want to speak willingly to you? Even if your mother wasn't cold and narcissistic if she gave birth to you with her subhuman genetics, it's over anyway. Much rather have a cold mother, that gave me good genes, than a really affectionate one that didn't. And when mothers are "affectionate" as you say, all they do is put you on a worse track by gaslighting you and making it seem as it isn't your appearance but your manners, confidence... In the pursuit of protecting you, they leave you out in the cold, harsh night of what this world is.

An affectionate mother, is one that decides to not have children, if top 20% looks and good living opportunities, aren't guarantied.

 

[jayjay]

How can you relate to women when none want to speak willingly to you?

I don't know. Reincarnation.

Even if your mother wasn't cold and narcissistic if she gave birth to you with her subhuman genetics, it's over anyway.

Thus is real life. The best cards you can get from the start, the better.

Much rather have a cold mother, that gave me good genes, than a really affectionate one that didn't.

Hmm, it depends. If the cold one treats you like shit, good luck dealing with C-PTSD.

This is more nuanced boyo.

And when mothers are "affectionate" as you say, all they do is put you on a worse track by gaslighting you and making it seem as it isn't your appearance but your manners, confidence...

Yours maybe.

In the pursuit of protecting you, they leave you out in the cold, harsh night of what this world is.

Then we are better off never being born.

An affectionate mother, is one that decides to not have children, if top 20% looks and good living opportunities, aren't guarantied.

A truly affectionate mother never has any children, as she doesn't risk putting him son through tragedy, illnesses, loss, death, etc.

Else, she will just be playing the sadistic game of nature.

 

[OgreLTN]

I don't know. Reincarnation.

Such is life right

Thus is real life. The best cards you can get from the start, the better.

Hmm, it depends. If the cold one treats you like shit, good luck dealing with C-PTSD.

This is assuming that as a subpar looking human, you won't get PTSD, anxiety... from other people. Plus, being ugly, thus meaning you inherited bad genes, means you're more likely to get mental disorders.

This is more nuanced boyo.

Not fucking really spiritual coper

Yours maybe.

Every mother does that when giving birth.

Then we are better off never being born.

Agree

A truly affectionate mother never has any children, as she doesn't risk putting him son through tragedy, illnesses, loss, death, etc.

Else, she will just be playing the sadistic game of nature.

Yeah, you could say that

 

[jayjay]

Not fucking really spiritual coper

I mean, one has to be more nuanced when using hyper-reductionistic explanations of human behaviour that only account for the evolutionary component. The unconscious part of the mind, or the thing that psychoanalysis studies then, also has a great influence in determining the quantity of suffering you will experience.

As for cope? I don't know. Exploring and deconstructing myself psychologically gave me a lot of benefits. Plus, it made me less neurotic.

As such, I'd say that incels greatly benefit of exploring their own minds. Thus, be careful of being hyper-reductionistic of your own human experience. As you are an animal being, you are also a human being with a mind that can think and hence you possess your own psychology with its own unconscious beliefs, actions, and so on.

 

[Myst]

TRUTH NUKE.

No wonder many blackpillers have these kind of cold narcissistic mothers. It all ends up being worse.

What kind of model for relating with women are these young men having in their unconscious? A pretty damaged one. You better fix that shit fast, because the damage will compound over time.

Your childhood environment is so insanely important for shaping who you become, but of course you can still change as a person if you make the effort, doesn't mean everything will flip like a switch overnight but it's definitely possible.

 

[jayjay]

I mean, one has to be more nuanced when using hyper-reductionistic explanations of human behaviour that only account for the evolutionary component. The unconscious part of the mind, or the thing that psychoanalysis studies then, also has a great influence in determining the quantity of suffering you will experience.

As for cope? I don't know. Exploring and deconstructing myself psychologically gave me a lot of benefits. Plus, it made me less neurotic.

As such, I'd say that incels greatly benefit of exploring their own minds. Thus, be careful of being hyper-reductionistic of your own human experience. As you are an animal being, you are also a human being with a mind that can think and hence you possess your own psychology with its own unconscious beliefs, actions, and so on.

@OgreLTN

For example, what if your mom deeply resents her own father, and you end up unconsciously reminding her of him?

How do you think she will relate to you due to her own unaddressed trauma?

These kinds of things are out of the reach of evolutionary psychology. Hence we see ourselves in need of approaching situations using different frameworks such as psychoanalysis for example.

 

[Abhorrence]

overprotective parenting just as bad

 

[Naofumi]

Looking snazzy

 

[Foidkiller]

what's MGM

Grrrr I was thinking of asking that, you postmaxxer!

 

[newsincerity]

Grrrr I was thinking of asking that, you postmaxxer!

You're just a stepping stone
My goal lies far beyond this

 

[Foidkiller]

You're just a stepping stone
My goal lies far beyond this

Maybe the second place badge looks cooler anyway

 

[OgreLTN]

I mean, one has to be more nuanced when using hyper-reductionistic explanations of human behaviour that only account for the evolutionary component. The unconscious part of the mind, or the thing that psychoanalysis studies then, also has a great influence in determining the quantity of suffering you will experience.

As for cope? I don't know. Exploring and deconstructing myself psychologically gave me a lot of benefits. Plus, it made me less neurotic.

As such, I'd say that incels greatly benefit of exploring their own minds. Thus, be careful of being hyper-reductionistic of your own human experience. As you are an animal being, you are also a human being with a mind that can think and hence you possess your own psychology with its own unconscious beliefs, actions, and so on.

All humans, all they are is, DNA. So how can't everything be explained by it? Your consciousness is still a product of your DNA. Our inability to understand it, doesn't make it a separate entity from what our body is. Consciousness evolved to give humans a survival advantage, because if not, why evolve it then? It's such a defining characteristic, it doesn't seem like the result of randomness.

Hating your own offspring is something even animals do. When a woman feels her genes were wasted by mixing with those of who she deemed an inferior man, she can resent her child. Why is this advantageous? It might push the mother to search genetically superior males and leave her children behind

Your "personality", if that even exists, is shaped greatly by your DNA. Even babies already react differently to stress, for example. Exploration of the mind, being effective to deconstruct yourself, is already something you probably are genetically, inclined to. Hyper neuroticism, being self-aware, can't be fucking changed.

 

[jayjay]

All humans, all they are is, DNA. So how can't everything be explained by it? Your consciousness is still a product of your DNA. Our inability to understand it, doesn't make it a separate entity from what our body is. Consciousness evolved to give humans a survival advantage, because if not, why evolve it then? It's such a defining characteristic, it doesn't seem like the result of randomness.

Hating your own offspring is something even animals do. When a woman feels her genes were wasted by mixing with those of who she deemed an inferior man, she can resent her child. Why is this advantageous? It might push the mother to search genetically superior males and leave her children behind

Your "personality", if that even exists, is shaped greatly by your DNA. Even babies already react differently to stress, for example. Exploration of the mind, being effective to deconstruct yourself, is already something you probably are genetically, inclined to. Hyper neuroticism, being self-aware, can't be fucking changed.

"Much will be gained if we succeed in transforming your hysterical misery into ordinary unhappiness"
-Sigmund Freud

 

[Foidkiller]

I like her
I want to hang out with her and sex her

-What's your name, by the way?
-Bruh.

 

[Foidkiller]

Much rather have a cold mother, that gave me good genes

Magical "genetics"

 

[Loner]

average failed normie