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<blockquote data-quote="Raul and the Kings Of Lame" data-source="post: 66409" data-attributes="member: 500"><p>Why are most Incels on internet Forums angry and miserable ?</p><p></p><p>ChatGPT said:</p><p>Big question—and it’s a loaded one. I’ll try to answer it without dunking on people or sugar-coating things.</p><p></p><p>A lot of the anger and misery you see on incel forums comes from a feedback loop of pain, identity, and community dynamics, not from some single flaw.</p><p></p><p>Here are the main pieces that tend to stack up:</p><p></p><p>1. Chronic rejection hurts a lot</p><p>Repeated romantic or sexual rejection can seriously mess with someone’s self-worth. Humans are wired to want connection, validation, and intimacy. When someone feels consistently excluded, it can turn into:</p><p></p><p>Shame (“Something is wrong with me”)</p><p></p><p>Resentment (“Everyone else gets this but me”)</p><p></p><p>Hopelessness (“This will never change”)</p><p></p><p>If that pain isn’t processed in a healthy way, it often leaks out as anger.</p><p></p><p>2. Anger is easier than vulnerability</p><p>Sadness, loneliness, and fear feel powerless. Anger feels active and protective.</p><p></p><p>Many incel spaces implicitly (and sometimes explicitly) discourage vulnerability, therapy, or self-reflection. Anger becomes the socially acceptable emotion in the group, so it gets reinforced and rewarded.</p><p></p><p>3. The forums amplify the worst thoughts</p><p>Online communities can become echo chambers:</p><p></p><p>Catastrophic thinking goes unchallenged</p><p></p><p>Extreme stories get more attention</p><p></p><p>Nuanced or hopeful takes are mocked or banned</p><p></p><p>Over time, this distorts reality. The world starts looking hostile, rigged, and cruel—even when that’s not the full picture.</p><p></p><p>4. Identity gets built around suffering</p><p>When “incel” stops being a description and becomes an identity, misery becomes part of belonging.</p><p></p><p>If someone improves their life, leaves the mindset, or finds a relationship, they’re often accused of being a traitor or “never really one of us.” So staying angry becomes a way to stay connected.</p><p></p><p>5. Externalizing blame feels safer</p><p>It’s emotionally easier to believe:</p><p></p><p>“Women are shallow”</p><p></p><p>“Society is rigged”</p><p></p><p>“Genetics decided everything”</p><p></p><p>than to sit with:</p><p></p><p>social anxiety</p><p></p><p>poor coping skills</p><p></p><p>lack of experience</p><p></p><p>or fear of growth and rejection</p><p></p><p>Blame offers certainty. Growth requires risk.</p><p></p><p>6. Many are genuinely struggling with mental health</p><p>Depression, social anxiety, autism, trauma, and bullying histories show up a lot in these spaces. Without support, guidance, or offline community, forums become a substitute—and not always a healthy one.</p><p></p><p>The key thing</p><p>Most incels aren’t angry because they hate the world.</p><p></p><p>They hate the world because they’re hurting, stuck, and don’t see a way out—and the spaces they’re in make that hurt worse instead of better.</p><p></p><p>That doesn’t excuse harmful beliefs or behavior, but it does explain where the misery comes from.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Raul and the Kings Of Lame, post: 66409, member: 500"] Why are most Incels on internet Forums angry and miserable ? ChatGPT said: Big question—and it’s a loaded one. I’ll try to answer it without dunking on people or sugar-coating things. A lot of the anger and misery you see on incel forums comes from a feedback loop of pain, identity, and community dynamics, not from some single flaw. Here are the main pieces that tend to stack up: 1. Chronic rejection hurts a lot Repeated romantic or sexual rejection can seriously mess with someone’s self-worth. Humans are wired to want connection, validation, and intimacy. When someone feels consistently excluded, it can turn into: Shame (“Something is wrong with me”) Resentment (“Everyone else gets this but me”) Hopelessness (“This will never change”) If that pain isn’t processed in a healthy way, it often leaks out as anger. 2. Anger is easier than vulnerability Sadness, loneliness, and fear feel powerless. Anger feels active and protective. Many incel spaces implicitly (and sometimes explicitly) discourage vulnerability, therapy, or self-reflection. Anger becomes the socially acceptable emotion in the group, so it gets reinforced and rewarded. 3. The forums amplify the worst thoughts Online communities can become echo chambers: Catastrophic thinking goes unchallenged Extreme stories get more attention Nuanced or hopeful takes are mocked or banned Over time, this distorts reality. The world starts looking hostile, rigged, and cruel—even when that’s not the full picture. 4. Identity gets built around suffering When “incel” stops being a description and becomes an identity, misery becomes part of belonging. If someone improves their life, leaves the mindset, or finds a relationship, they’re often accused of being a traitor or “never really one of us.” So staying angry becomes a way to stay connected. 5. Externalizing blame feels safer It’s emotionally easier to believe: “Women are shallow” “Society is rigged” “Genetics decided everything” than to sit with: social anxiety poor coping skills lack of experience or fear of growth and rejection Blame offers certainty. Growth requires risk. 6. Many are genuinely struggling with mental health Depression, social anxiety, autism, trauma, and bullying histories show up a lot in these spaces. Without support, guidance, or offline community, forums become a substitute—and not always a healthy one. The key thing Most incels aren’t angry because they hate the world. They hate the world because they’re hurting, stuck, and don’t see a way out—and the spaces they’re in make that hurt worse instead of better. That doesn’t excuse harmful beliefs or behavior, but it does explain where the misery comes from. [/QUOTE]
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