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<blockquote data-quote="JayJaySattva" data-source="post: 67864" data-attributes="member: 147">Hello sadcel,Yes, unfortunately childhood trauma makes relationships with women and men difficult because our parents are our first models of how you should relate to the femenine and masculine. Add to that any additional trauma, and all of sort of things start influencing your life from the unconscious for the worst.I do think there is a solution to &#039;abused-dog&#039; syndrome though. Something that has worked for me are Loving-kindness practices or the so called &#039;metta&#039; practices. This combined with IFS therapy, in which you try to talk with the different parts of yourself will be of great help. Love is one of the most neuroplasticity inducing emotions and if you get to the point of being able to generate it yourself, then I think it will allow you to love anyone, either male or women, from a place of wholeness.I would like to make a thread on how to do it, but you can write to me for more information if you are interested.[MEDIA=youtube]WbHgLV8RPk4[/MEDIA]</blockquote>

[QUOTE="JayJaySattva, post: 67864, member: 147"] Hello sadcel, Yes, unfortunately childhood trauma makes relationships with women and men difficult because our parents are our first models of how you should relate to the femenine and masculine. Add to that any additional trauma, and all of sort of things start influencing your life from the unconscious for the worst. I do think there is a solution to 'abused-dog' syndrome though. Something that has worked for me are Loving-kindness practices or the so called 'metta' practices. This combined with IFS therapy, in which you try to talk with the different parts of yourself will be of great help. Love is one of the most neuroplasticity inducing emotions and if you get to the point of being able to generate it yourself, then I think it will allow you to love anyone, either male or women, from a place of wholeness. I would like to make a thread on how to do it, but you can write to me for more information if you are interested. [MEDIA=youtube]WbHgLV8RPk4[/MEDIA] [/QUOTE]

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