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<blockquote data-quote="160cmcurry" data-source="post: 74448" data-attributes="member: 616">tbh this is why boys love is way better and healthier long term unlike heterosexual man to woman relationship.there’s less of that constant pressure to perform some rigid role or live up to expectations that were never even explained to you. it’s not as transactional or based on what you “provide” vs what you “are.”&nbsp;it feels more mutual, like both people actually get each other, meet each others emotion needs, just two boys being cute.&nbsp; you can be affectionate, clingy, vulnerable, and it’s not seen as weakness, it’s just normal. it becomes less about proving something and more about actually caring for each other.with heterosexual dynamics a lot of it ends up feeling like unspoken rules, tests, and power plays. you’re always being evaluated instead of just accepted. even when things are “good” there’s still that underlying tension of needing to act a certain way or you risk losing everything.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="160cmcurry, post: 74448, member: 616"] tbh this is why boys love is way better and healthier long term unlike heterosexual man to woman relationship. there’s less of that constant pressure to perform some rigid role or live up to expectations that were never even explained to you. it’s not as transactional or based on what you “provide” vs what you “are.” it feels more mutual, like both people actually get each other, meet each others emotion needs, just two boys being cute. you can be affectionate, clingy, vulnerable, and it’s not seen as weakness, it’s just normal. it becomes less about proving something and more about actually caring for each other. with heterosexual dynamics a lot of it ends up feeling like unspoken rules, tests, and power plays. you’re always being evaluated instead of just accepted. even when things are “good” there’s still that underlying tension of needing to act a certain way or you risk losing everything. [/QUOTE]

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