Personal Experience Have any of you had platonic female relationship / friendship with women before?

[MelaninWarlord]

My NDIS worker said that the couples on the beach could have just been platonic relationships

Definition : a close, intimate bond between men and women that lacks sexual or romantic attraction, focusing instead on deep emotional support, trust, shared values, and genuine enjoyment of each other's company, allowing for vulnerability, shared secrets, and mutual growth without romantic complications.

He said that he has had platonic female relationships. I told him I never had one. I did notice some people back in school were close to women in a non sexual way.

This I never experienced. Whenever I talked to women it is only like an acquaintance and the moment I steer it into sexual or girlfriend boyfriend vibes, she disappears.

So am I suffering not just inceldom, but the lack of platonic female friends??

 

[MelaninWarlord]

@lunin7 @Asgard

 

[lunin7]

I’ve only had girls as friends briefly, then most of them would realize I’m nd and they’d unfollow me and or stop talking to me

 

[MelaninWarlord]

I’ve only had girls as friends briefly, then most of them would realize I’m nd and they’d unfollow me and or stop talking to me

Yeah pretty relatable, but I think girls would even call me boring or strange. Some talk nice but only act like that on a surface level.

There's also so many single sex high schools in Sydney so that makes it harder to form these friendships / relationships.

And if your not extraverted and have cold approach anxiety, your family doesn't have a big social circle then meeting women is even harder

 

[PoopyPigeon]

My NDIS worker said that the couples on the beach could have just been platonic relationships

Definition : a close, intimate bond between men and women that lacks sexual or romantic attraction, focusing instead on deep emotional support, trust, shared values, and genuine enjoyment of each other's company, allowing for vulnerability, shared secrets, and mutual growth without romantic complications.

He said that he has had platonic female relationships. I told him I never had one. I did notice some people back in school were close to women in a non sexual way.

This I never experienced. Whenever I talked to women it is only like an acquaintance and the moment I steer it into sexual or girlfriend boyfriend vibes, she disappears.

So am I suffering not just inceldom, but the lack of platonic female friends??

I had a couple of female friends as a teenager, although I wasn't particularly attracted to them in a carnal sense, plus it was truly boring interacting with them for the most part.

I remember a female aquantance who was into me though, yet since I was basically a bottom-of-the-barrel loser I didn't reciprocate since other peers might have looked down upon her(this was before I turned MGTOW).

 

[PoopyPigeon]

I think girls would even call me boring

The sheer fucking irony LMFAO

I’ve only had girls as friends briefly, then most of them would realize I’m nd and they’d unfollow me and or stop talking to me

Honestly, this is a prime reason why I went MGTOW, their addiction to conformity and their lack of desire to go against societal narratives.

 

[Asgard]

Some talk nice but only act like that on a surface level.

Just ask them what are their plans for the so-called Day of the Lord.