Discussion Have you ever had failed meeting plans with online friends

[burn]

Happened plenty of times with me back like 2 3 years ago i realised its all fake bs, dont take anything online serious its all fake only irl friendships matter.
Ive seen it plenty of times normies that have irl friends still use discord, telegram to chat with non nt guys online.
The sad thing is guys that use these apps to feel less alone see those normies as real friends they expect them to be like a real friend but the normies will never care they wont meet up wont care for new friendships.
So dont get scammed dont get attached to ppl online u dont know, now im left with fake bs nostalgia

 

[fatcel_3000]

the online vs irl thing is just as important as length of friendship.

generally speaking, if longtime friends invite a new person into their group, they will have another groupchat where they talk shit about you and at least one member tries to kick you out and go back to the good old days

if people know each other IRL theres a good chance they will talk shit about you and go through all your dms when there's a lull in conversation

legit online friends usually are like legit irl friends in that you meet as children, take it either to your house or "irl" outside of the shared social setting and it persists until adulthood. People arent interested in making friends (instead of people you chat with to pass the time) because they already have friends by then.

although they'll gang up on you, they arent as close as they might seem. Most of them will cut each others throats for a crumb of pussy

in this world all you got at the end of the day is your Looks-Money-Status, your mind, and whatever leverage and formalized power you have over others (this one is the weakest because you can always get bopped in the face). Like owning a company and being able to fire and blackmail your wagie. Anything else is "soft power" - you can use it but its not real

 

[dreamworld]

to kinda addd on to this online relationships are not real as they is no way to grow a real authentic relationship without real and authentic hhuman interactions plus online is just boring unless u play games its just talking all the time with this person u "love" they are only good for maybe a few days of entertainment if ur bored