Personal Experience Help me break down the following social situations I had back in my high school years.

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One day during school some girl (let's call her Sarah) from a different classroom, a girl I barely knew (we haven't crossed words at all) made a drawing of me having sex with another girl from my own class (let's call this one Lucia) I used to talk to. Lucia was more approachable to me, I found it to be very friendly and Lucia was somehow quite "popular", I don't know how to describe it exactly.

One day she Lucia even sent me a picture through a message app of a screenshot of a certain videogame featuring a sexual scene, UNPROMPTED. Going back to the original topic, Sarah left the drawing under my desk. I grabbed it and I saw it and Sarah and the girls nearby were giggling. Why?

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Could someone please tell me why did these people do such things to me? Were they mocking me?

Another popular girl from my classroom used to sit on my lap whenever we were sitting in groups. A popular girl, but I thought she was being friendly. Or maybe she was mocking me. I'm not bragging, I'm just trying to understand stuff. She's still popular with a high follower count on her IG. She was kinda hot and petite so of course I had hard ons whenever she was sitting on my lap. Other girls used to sit on my lap too.

She looked like this although her face was more hotter...

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I've been rated LTN in Looksmax. Well, I guess I was ugly all along.

There is an user on Looksmax from India who goes by the name of RabidRosaries, he even rated me a subhuman back in 2022 in a thread I made. How come? How does my skull change its shape during my mid teens? It's not physically possible, so there must be a reason. An actual motive. Maybe people were covertly bullying me?

Why no one has ever helped me navigate through social life? Could someone please help me?
 
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Another popular girl from my classroom used to sit on my lap whenever we were sitting in groups. A popular girl, but I thought she was being friendly. Or maybe she was mocking me. I'm not bragging, I'm just trying to understand stuff. She's still popular with a high follower count on her IG. She was kinda hot and petite so of course I had hard ons whenever she was sitting on my lap. Other girls used to sit on my lap too.
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imho that's called female-on-male bullying in my handbook.
I'm quite sure this is the case. From what I've seen, when girls bully a guy, they act all friendly, say something subtle, and turn to their friends and giggle. They like to do it right in your face since some guys are clueless to this. In secret they mostly give bad nicknames, draw offensive pictures. Probably where that photo came from.
 
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You were just a placeholder to mess around with when the foids felt rowdy and bored, ghetto school was it……

Although if the foid even does this with somebody, it means they are not totally subhuman
 
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You were just a placeholder to mess around with when the foids felt rowdy and bored, ghetto school was it……

Although if the foid even does this with somebody, it means they are not totally subhuman
No, just your typical rural high school.
 
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It's over. I'm roping but rest assured I will leave this world with a loud bang! :coomer::psycho:
Happened to me in 3 year highshool, then i said something about depression and they were just smiliing and almost laughing, turned out one of them is lesbian, the other is a psyco doing law school, i was a normie 5'10, sometimes its just revenge from insecuritiy, dont take personally, they are all hoes in the end
 

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I wasted more than a few years learning this:
Women can like you.

I spent a very long time *automatically ruling out* this possibility and searching for some other wrong explanation.

How to react to this type of teasing?
Be cool and chill. When girls do this as a method of exploring a possible relationship, if you lose your composure or are shy/avoid/run, you are ruled out as a possible relationship. You are a silly toy and a joke.

Instead, be calm, but receptive and mildly interested. They will escalate to flirt more, because you have not broken yet.
Let them. Then call them on it in a cool manner. Tease them back or a "Oh yeah? When why don't we" with a sly smile.

If they ARE teasing with no interest other than bullying (do NOT assume this! Your brain and anxiety is working against you!) then there is no loss, and you did not act like a fool or a joke; because you were not insecure or frazzled.

There is an user on Looksmax from India who goes by the name of RabidRosaries, he even rated me a
You are obsessing about what some random dude in India with a stupid name on a stupid website said 3 years ago.
Do not do that. Value yourself, work with what you have.
 
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