how to get over a oneitis?

[Alurmo]

i feel like a creep just staring at her, I feel like shes one day gonna call me out on it then lash out saying smt like shes not interested or that shes taken(which she prob is ffs)

I dont want to suffer through this anymore, she literally has me on a leash and whatev she does to say to me I will prob do, I don't need to feel like a cuck in my life

any tips?

 

[wsada]

How long has this been going for

 

[burn]

Ive been obsessed with plenty of girls irl but never considered any of them a oneitis the obsession went away after 3 4 months

 

[Myst]

idk man leave me alone

 

[Myst]

Jokes aside, I'm dealing with the same problem and have had the same oneitis since the 8th grade.

 

[twojei]

i feel like a creep just staring at her, I feel like shes one day gonna call me out on it then lash out saying smt like shes not interested or that shes taken(which she prob is ffs)

I dont want to suffer through this anymore, she literally has me on a leash and whatev she does to say to me I will prob do, I don't need to feel like a cuck in my life

any tips?

If you can, just try your best not to have to see her or talk to her, or make any kind of physical contact. Definitely, oneitis is the most cucked part of human male nature. Just know that she never thinks about you, and all that mental energy would be better spent trying to sublimate your sexual desire into something artistic or intellectual.

 

[LOOKISM-LOGIC]

You will never get over her as in not feel attracted to her etc, you cannot override such instincts but, you can just accept that the feelings are not mutual…. thus a pointless waste of time and mental energy.

By doing so you detach and cope like a pro.

 

[Mathiverse]

All women are carbon copies of each other and besides,it's not hard to find women as pretty as her

 

[twojei]

All women are carbon copies of each other and besides,it's not hard to find women as pretty as her

Is this because autism is more dominant in males right? I have talked to one autistic woman, and she is indeed kinda different...