Venting I fucking hate public showing of love so much

[Mentally Lost Cel]

I dont want to see you fingering each other you disgusting Filthy people

Also they are doing this to make other people jealous so they are evil pieces of shit

 

[Lokki]

Me too, even though i usually receive it

Me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up today because she wants a break for her mental health and says that this is just a temporary break up but whatever

Well we were on a train coming back from a holiday and right as were about to say goodbye she Hugs me and kisses me like 30 times and almost gets emotional

Its not that i dont love her or i dont want to hug and kiss her, but Its just that we were in a public train cart full of random strangers so i just felt really akward

Much rather keep this kind of stuff private

 

[GGWP]

she wants a break for her mental health and says that this is just a temporary break up

Be careful about that one brudda

 

[Lokki]

Be careful about that one brudda

Im trying to convince myself so hard that shes not taking a break just to fuck other dudes

Theres like a 5% chance shes going to stay Loyal, come back to me and resume dating as normal

Feel very cucked right now but theres not anything i can do about it

 

[Mentally Lost Cel]

Me too, even though i usually receive it

Me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up today because she wants a break for her mental health and says that this is just a temporary break up but whatever

Well we were on a train coming back from a holiday and right as were about to say goodbye she Hugs me and kisses me like 30 times and almost gets emotional

Its not that i dont love her or i dont want to hug and kiss her, but Its just that we were in a public train cart full of random strangers so i just felt really akward

Much rather keep this kind of stuff private

Your gf sounds like a piece of shit , i hope both of you die a very painful death

 

[Bloxy]

i should be able to hurt these kinds of people

 

[Bloxy]

because she wants a break for her mental health

 

[Mentally Lost Cel]

i should be able to hurt these kinds of people

Based

 

[Deleted member 136]

Me too, even though i usually receive it

Me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up today because she wants a break for her mental health and says that this is just a temporary break up but whatever

Well we were on a train coming back from a holiday and right as were about to say goodbye she Hugs me and kisses me like 30 times and almost gets emotional

Its not that i dont love her or i dont want to hug and kiss her, but Its just that we were in a public train cart full of random strangers so i just felt really akward

Much rather keep this kind of stuff private

Ironic, keep this stuff private ehh, well well…..

 

[Jacob]

I don't really mind background noise anymore. I just do my own thing and I feel good... better than ever IMO. Maybe I'm asexual after all.

 

[Jacob]

I don't really mind background noise anymore. I just do my own thing and I feel good... better than ever IMO. Maybe I'm asexual after all.

Ego's back. I should seek a definitive balance with my feminine and masculine archetypes (do they call this alchemical marriage?). Those days were the best of my life (when I didn't feel the craving for female validation or anything else).

 

[JayJay]

Ego's back. I should seek a definitive balance with my feminine and masculine archetypes (do they call this alchemical marriage?). Those days were the best of my life (when I didn't feel the craving for female validation or anything else).

the mother wound

 

[EYES_OF_THE_WORLD]

I dont want to see you fingering each other you disgusting Filthy people

Also they are doing this to make other people jealous so they are evil pieces of shit

A small peck on the lips or hug is something I don't mind but it gets to a point where you need to just stop. In my life I had to see couples going at it like fucking animals. It's honestly kinda disgusting really.

 

[Jacob]

the mother wound

Could you elaborate on that?

 

[Jacob]

A small peck on the lips or hug is something I don't mind but it gets to a point where you need to just stop. In my life I had to see couples going at it like fucking animals. It's honestly kinda disgusting really.

I think people on average do not have self and situational awareness, especially when doing displays of romantic affection in public.

So, anyway, the best advice I've gotten so far is observe these feelings and not acting upon them since... we are observers after all.

 

[JayJay]

Could you elaborate on that?

The best way to not give a sht about women is to "heal" any mommy issues.

 

[Jacob]

The best way to not give a sht about women is to "heal" any mommy issues.

I don't know how to do that, I'm about to panhandle in a while. Provide some tips for me if you're able to since I want to deal with this underlying anxiety issue.

 

[JayJay]

I don't know how to do that, I'm about to panhandle in a while. Provide some tips for me if you're able to since I want to deal with this underlying anxiety issue.

Meditation + active imagination to converse with the unconscious mind + connecting with your emotions through music + remaining in the present moment the most you can and applying this technique:

In short, I:1. Use a technique called "label, dismiss, refocus (LDR)," which is basically what the book "You Are Not Your Brain" is all about. 2. Did a lot of specialized journaling. LDRLabel: Identify when the brain is engaging in thought. Dismiss: Say "it's just the brain."Refocus: Engage in a healthy activity. Like learning to play an instrument, doing this repeatedly will build new neural pathways, rewire the brain to do it automatically, keep you in a "flow state" more often, quiet down your brain's default mode network (which is the source of a lot of mental problems) and ultimately turn your life into a big meditation. Just remember you are not your thoughts!

Finally, I suggest going to therapy, but the other alternative is using the AI DeepSeek as your therapist. Ask it to be brutally honest with you. Use DeepSeek so that he can help you to analyze whatever appears in active imagination from a Jungian and Freudian standpoint.

 

[Jacob]

Finally, I suggest going to therapy, but the other alternative is using the AI DeepSeek as your therapist. Ask it to be brutally honest with you. Use DeepSeek so that he can help you to analyze whatever appears in active imagination from a Jungian and Freudian standpoint.

How could I further stimulate my brain as a vagabond without having to resort on street illegal drugs (besides meditation)?

 

[JayJay]

How could I further stimulate my brain as a vagabond without having to resort on street illegal drugs (besides meditation)?

Connecting with your emotions. Do it with music. Try to focus intensely on it. It is like meditation but using music. Any kind of genre works, but it works better when you use songs to connect with what you are feeling in the present moment: if you feel sad, listen to sad songs. If you feel happy, listen to happy songs. I you feel depressed, listen to depressive songs. And so on...

But you have to push it further and sing, or better said: it is not necessary to “sing” as such, but to try to feel the emotions through singing, even if it is silent and you are only using the mouth to simulate words coming out of your mouth.

You can experience meditation using different "ways of looking". You can approach any kind of phenomena from the viewpoint of "not-mine, not-self". This is better explained here in this book:

Seeing That Frees: Burbea, Robert: 9780992848910: Amazon.com: Books

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This reduces a lot of suffering and makes you feel giga spacious!

 

[cosmicx16]

I dont want to see you fingering each other you disgusting Filthy people

Also they are doing this to make other people jealous so they are evil pieces of shit

Truth is, if your girl was all over you, you would let her do things like that as long as it was for you. I mean, unless you’re a saint.
I’d like to think I would be better than that , but we’ll never know lel.

 

[Mentally Lost Cel]

Truth is, if your girl was all over you, you would let her do things like that as long as it was for you. I mean, unless you’re a saint.
I’d like to think I would be better than that , but we’ll never know lel.

ı would let her do it in PRIVATE , not ın fuckıng bus stops or publıc transport

 

[cosmicx16]

ı would let her do it in PRIVATE , not ın fuckıng bus stops or publıc transport

It’s a thirdworlder behaviour tbh

 

[Mentally Lost Cel]

It’s a thirdworlder behaviour tbh

Maybe ?

 

[Justin Trudeau]

Grow up how does it effect you personally? Women don't owe you anything right wing bigoted incel!