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<blockquote data-quote="Jacob" data-source="post: 77938" data-attributes="member: 342"><p>Friendzone as in only being seen as a friend? As far as I remember, most of my relationships with women always surged before what would you typically consider the stage of forming friendship bonds (in other words, you don't have to do much if a woman is truly attracted to you, and that's easy to tell unless you're autistic or neurodivergent like in my case). IMHO, dating should only be approached in a more educational-like environment and that typically is supposed to take place in your teens (unless you live in, um, an isolated tribe?) and sometimes in your early twenties if you ever decide to take the college route (or it has to be within your social circle at the very least... as long as you can establish contact with a female friend of a friend and so on, otherwise friendships don't really serve any meaningful purpose besides maybe job opportunities and such), otherwise it is very unlikely you'll ever mingle with the opposite gender unless you're really that good looking (and this is not a generalization at all, most socially low status men are usually not neurotypical and typically lack an actual social network). Actually, I don't even know why I restated the obvious on this post, this is a well-established knowledge on most people anyway... but you get my point.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jacob, post: 77938, member: 342"] Friendzone as in only being seen as a friend? As far as I remember, most of my relationships with women always surged before what would you typically consider the stage of forming friendship bonds (in other words, you don't have to do much if a woman is truly attracted to you, and that's easy to tell unless you're autistic or neurodivergent like in my case). IMHO, dating should only be approached in a more educational-like environment and that typically is supposed to take place in your teens (unless you live in, um, an isolated tribe?) and sometimes in your early twenties if you ever decide to take the college route (or it has to be within your social circle at the very least... as long as you can establish contact with a female friend of a friend and so on, otherwise friendships don't really serve any meaningful purpose besides maybe job opportunities and such), otherwise it is very unlikely you'll ever mingle with the opposite gender unless you're really that good looking (and this is not a generalization at all, most socially low status men are usually not neurotypical and typically lack an actual social network). Actually, I don't even know why I restated the obvious on this post, this is a well-established knowledge on most people anyway... but you get my point. [/QUOTE]
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