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<blockquote data-quote="JayJaySattva" data-source="post: 9598" data-attributes="member: 147"><p>Do you guys really think it's all just about looks? Isn't there more to it? I mean, why does your brain get obsessed with one specific girl and not another? There must be more than just physical appearance at play, right? Sure, there could be things like pheromones or lack of dating options, but when I think about the "oneitises" I’ve seen men develop, they're often not for the most conventionally attractive girls. So what makes the brain fixate on one person specifically?</p><p></p><p>I've noticed something interesting about all of my own "oneitises": none of these girls had a paternal figure in their lives. When I thought back on it, this pattern stood out. Was it just a coincidence, or is there something deeper going on? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite125" alt=":pepealarmed" title="PepeAlarmed :pepealarmed" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":pepealarmed" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayJaySattva, post: 9598, member: 147"] Do you guys really think it's all just about looks? Isn't there more to it? I mean, why does your brain get obsessed with one specific girl and not another? There must be more than just physical appearance at play, right? Sure, there could be things like pheromones or lack of dating options, but when I think about the "oneitises" I’ve seen men develop, they're often not for the most conventionally attractive girls. So what makes the brain fixate on one person specifically? I've noticed something interesting about all of my own "oneitises": none of these girls had a paternal figure in their lives. When I thought back on it, this pattern stood out. Was it just a coincidence, or is there something deeper going on? :pepealarmed [/QUOTE]
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