I would prefer not to stand out in the public with flashy clothes if I'm being honest with you OP. The world is becoming increasingly more perilous as the time passes onโ and I'm talking mostly from a Western perspective.
You don't even need to dress all gay. For me, having a longer hairstyle (that I actually liked and not one of those masc coping short hair styles) and having some level of fashion sense that is comfortable is all you really need.