Discussion The Anatomy of an Incel -- Profiling Inceldom

[Tabula Rasa]

When an individual typically posts about his vibrant social life (if he has one), he is usually derided and called a 'fakecel', even if he is romantically unsuccessful regardless. The same usually applies if the individual possesses other positive markers, including but not limited to being revealed to have average to above-average looks, having previous romantic experience, being socially and/or financially successful, etc. This is vaguely reminiscent of the 'failed normie'/in-group designation dichotomy often used in other communities.

The typical self-proclaimed incel is an adolescent or young adult male who has average to below-average looks, comes from a medium to low socio-economic background, and possesses little to no social capital. The individual may also exhibit dysfunctional mental pathologies or disorders, and have suffered from physical or mental trauma in the past.

 

[Mathiverse]

Ok incel

 

[burn]

If u have social life and are nt its hard to be an incel, unless ur beyond subhuman deformed looking or like 5ft2 tall, thats why i hate nt normies more than some chad lifemogger, them mfs complain too much

 

[Loner]

most of these guys are just introverted or very autistic or neurodivergent

 

[Abhorrence]

most of these guys are just introverted or very autistic or neurodivergent

who

 

[jayjay]

who

Me. I was. I rejected my asperger because I thought it condemned me to a life of loneliness and pain, but now I'm thankful for being aspie.

We aspies have very powerful brains, highly adaptable. After healing my trauma, I went from being super high inhib to being low inhib. I'm back to normal though, everything rises has to fall. But I'm taking it slow and with compassion.

But those super low inhibition moments did make me realize how fear and shame are all mental constructs. If the only thing that changes within me was my neurochemistry temporarily, then it is all pure illusion, pure fabrication of chemicals after all.

 

[Myst]

Me. I was. I rejected my asperger because I thought it condemned me to a life of loneliness and pain, but now I'm thankful for being aspie.

We aspies have very powerful brains, highly adaptable. After healing my trauma, I went from being super high inhib to being low inhib. I'm back to normal though, everything rises has to fall. But I'm taking it slow and with compassion.

But those super low inhibition moments did make me realize how fear and shame are all mental constructs. If the only thing that changes within me was my neurochemistry temporarily, then it is all pure illusion, pure fabrication of chemicals after all.

Mind telling me more?

 

[vermeulean]

feel like incels are very rare outside of the internet, then again i don't leave the house

 

[Myst]

feel like incels are very rare outside of the internet, then again i don't leave the house

Not every incel identifies as one, but there are many incels.

 

[vermeulean]

Not every incel identifies as one, but there are many incels.

technically most of my acquaintances from highschool are incels as far as i know, but i think "failed normies" is probably a better term

women online also like to throw the term around a lot and specifically refer to men according to whether or not they have an "incel" mindset or whatever, which is obviously retarded

 

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[jayjay]

Mind telling me more?

Yeah dude. It was giga weird. Basically, I have been living all of my life repressing my emotions. After healing that felt like the king of the world. Super nice,but it amplified a lot my egocentrism jfl. So be careful if you ever experience those altered states of consciousness.

I loved when I wanted to hate, and I hated when I loved type shit. What I do now is that I live very intensely. I'm giving myself away to my passions. Every emotion wether it be sadness or happyness, I give myself fully to it. I give myself away to pain and pleasure too. It makes you realize there is no distinction between these concepts, they are simply mental constructs. In other words, they just are.

 

[Myst]

Yeah dude. It was giga weird. Basically, I have been living all of my life repressing my emotions. After healing that felt like the king of the world. Super nice,but it amplified a lot my egocentrism jfl. So be careful if you ever experience those altered states of consciousness.

I loved when I wanted to hate, and I hated when I loved type shit. What I do now is that I live very intensely. I'm giving myself away to my passions. Every emotion wether it be sadness or happyness, I give myself fully to it. I give myself away to pain and pleasure too. It makes you realize there is no distinction between these concepts, they are simply mental constructs. In other words, they just are.

I agree with half of this