Discussion The reason for low self esteem or zero confidence should be obvious at this point

[lunin7]

It’s because you’re ugly or you suffer from something I call faulty state pregnancy, where you’re born by a miracle when you’re not supposed to be.

Anxiety is just you protecting yourself from stress, and low confidence is just you protecting yourself from anxiety.

 

[Apollo]

It’s because you’re ugly or you suffer from something I call faulty state pregnancy, where you’re born by a miracle when you’re not supposed to be.

Anxiety is just you protecting yourself from stress, and low confidence is just you protecting yourself from anxiety.

And you still drive meaning from it, the will to power level of desire to be

 

[Two-jay]

It’s because you’re ugly or you suffer from something I call faulty state pregnancy, where you’re born by a miracle when you’re not supposed to be.

Anxiety is just you protecting yourself from stress, and low confidence is just you protecting yourself from anxiety.

Yes, but what are the underlying unconscious narratives propelling the neurosis?

"I'm unworthy"
"I don't deserve love"
blah, blah, blah...

Do not allow yourself to be a prisoner of thoughts. Words are words, they are just a vehicle to travel the world, but not some sort of ultimate truth.

 

[Exorcist]

Confidence comes from success, so when you lack the success to justify real confidence, it's impossible to have it in the area of life you lack success in

 

[newsincerity]

Yes, but what are the underlying unconscious narratives propelling the neurosis?

"I'm unworthy"
"I don't deserve love"
blah, blah, blah...

Do not allow yourself to be a prisoner of thoughts. Words are words, they are just a vehicle to travel the world, but not some sort of ultimate truth.

If you feel that it's over it probably is

 

[Two-jay]

If you feel that it's over it probably is

Yes, it might be. At the same time one has to be very careful with the kind of self-narratives used to describe how life is going.

 

[newsincerity]

Confidence comes from success, so when you lack the success to justify real confidence, it's impossible to have it in the area of life you lack success in

real confidence comes from having 40+ badges