For me its the opposite, when I accept that I am merely, the greater everything’s puppet, God if you will….. I can come to understand the futility is things that wouldn’t seem so in a bluepilled mindset, mind you the bluepilled video you posted still has some solid truths….. moreover this is not a ldar mindset.
In the long run such bluepilled mindsets will be shattered by trauma, a potent grounding, earthing force for those too high in the blue sky.
Thats my opinion.., I am being yanked by some string all the time, i barely have any control . Life can be very fun but in the end under a greater awareness it becomes not only fun but funny too.
The answer is too bathe in pessimism, the reality tbh…..until you can form something even remotely positive or motivational there, kind of like that tbh,….