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<blockquote data-quote="MelaninWarlord" data-source="post: 58867" data-attributes="member: 428"><p>The YouTube video you provided, titled <strong>"Why dating is so competitive nowadays?"</strong> by the channel <strong>kelcat_X</strong>, is a stream that discusses the difficulties and changes in the modern dating landscape, primarily from the perspective of the "average man."</p><p></p><p></p><p>Here is a summary of the main points from the video's discussion:</p><p></p><p></p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><strong>Dating is More Competitive:</strong> The speaker argues that dating has become much more competitive for the average man, claiming that the key issue is that women now have "a whole lot of options" [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=62" target="_blank">01:02</a>].</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><strong>The Impact of Dating Apps and Social Media:</strong> The speaker repeatedly blames dating apps (such as Tinder and Bumble) and social media for "fucking up" dating for the average man [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=148" target="_blank">02:28</a>]. He claims these platforms gave women more options, making them "more picky" [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=122" target="_blank">02:02</a>].</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><strong>The Problem of "Ghosting":</strong> He states that the term "ghosting" (when someone suddenly disappears after dating or hooking up) became common and intense after the rise of the iPhone and dating apps [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=405" target="_blank">06:45</a>], [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=898" target="_blank">14:58</a>]. He recounts his own experience of being ghosted [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=383" target="_blank">06:23</a>].</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><strong>Focus on the "Bag" (Wealth/Success):</strong> The speaker repeatedly emphasizes that for an average man to succeed in dating, he must <strong>"get the bag"</strong> (become wealthy or successful) [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=438" target="_blank">07:18</a>], [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=657" target="_blank">10:57</a>]. He suggests that men "with the bag" are "immune" to the downsides of dating apps [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=662" target="_blank">11:02</a>] and are considered "high value" [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=728" target="_blank">12:08</a>].</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><strong>Short-term vs. Long-term:</strong> The speaker mentions that while dating apps can sometimes lead to casual encounters, they are not effective for finding long-term commitment or relationships [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=356" target="_blank">05:56</a>], [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=1421" target="_blank">23:41</a>].</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><strong>A "Seesaw Effect":</strong> He concludes by saying that while technology like dating apps was created for convenience, it has a downside—a "seesaw effect"—that makes finding a mate much harder for some men [<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=1035" target="_blank">17:15</a>].</li> </ul><p></p><p>You can watch the stream here: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA" target="_blank">Why dating is so competitive nowadays?</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MelaninWarlord, post: 58867, member: 428"] The YouTube video you provided, titled [B]"Why dating is so competitive nowadays?"[/B] by the channel [B]kelcat_X[/B], is a stream that discusses the difficulties and changes in the modern dating landscape, primarily from the perspective of the "average man." Here is a summary of the main points from the video's discussion: [LIST] [*][B]Dating is More Competitive:[/B] The speaker argues that dating has become much more competitive for the average man, claiming that the key issue is that women now have "a whole lot of options" [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=62']01:02[/URL]]. [*][B]The Impact of Dating Apps and Social Media:[/B] The speaker repeatedly blames dating apps (such as Tinder and Bumble) and social media for "fucking up" dating for the average man [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=148']02:28[/URL]]. He claims these platforms gave women more options, making them "more picky" [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=122']02:02[/URL]]. [*][B]The Problem of "Ghosting":[/B] He states that the term "ghosting" (when someone suddenly disappears after dating or hooking up) became common and intense after the rise of the iPhone and dating apps [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=405']06:45[/URL]], [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=898']14:58[/URL]]. He recounts his own experience of being ghosted [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=383']06:23[/URL]]. [*][B]Focus on the "Bag" (Wealth/Success):[/B] The speaker repeatedly emphasizes that for an average man to succeed in dating, he must [B]"get the bag"[/B] (become wealthy or successful) [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=438']07:18[/URL]], [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=657']10:57[/URL]]. He suggests that men "with the bag" are "immune" to the downsides of dating apps [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=662']11:02[/URL]] and are considered "high value" [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=728']12:08[/URL]]. [*][B]Short-term vs. Long-term:[/B] The speaker mentions that while dating apps can sometimes lead to casual encounters, they are not effective for finding long-term commitment or relationships [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=356']05:56[/URL]], [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=1421']23:41[/URL]]. [*][B]A "Seesaw Effect":[/B] He concludes by saying that while technology like dating apps was created for convenience, it has a downside—a "seesaw effect"—that makes finding a mate much harder for some men [[URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA&t=1035']17:15[/URL]]. [/LIST] You can watch the stream here: [URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onbqN_EegsA']Why dating is so competitive nowadays?[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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