Theory Why ISFJ/ESFJ are the perfect pair bonding partner for any Male

[ZZebra786]

If you have studied socionics like I have then you will have a better chance of understanding this but out of all the 16 types its best to give up and throw out the other 14 types off the rip unless your type is Most Compatible with that type, then take that type into consideration for Instance INFJ best match is Enfp and second followed by infp But i would still put isfj/esfj above your highest compatible type. Good news is that Isfj/Esfj are the two most common types out of all 16 meaning they are much easier to find and meet. I think they are the most common type for a very good reason. And that reason is why they are the best pair bonding parter

ISFJ
-Most Loyal type
-Reliable
-Very loving
-Sweet
-Sensitive
-Extremely supportive
-Quirky
-Affectionate
-Hard working
-Usually has good morales

-ESFJ is basically a extroverted version of the isfj so most of the same things apply as above
-Second Most Loyal type
-Most sensitive type
-Organized
-Sense of Justice
-Practical
-Caring
-Usually has good morales
How to spot the two types? Well you could just ask them if they know their type, but the 16 types operate in 4 Quadrants, ISFJ, ISFP, INTP, INFP are Inform, Responding & Control and ESFJ
belong in to quadra that is Inform, initiate & Move. study their interaction styles and learn how to type anyone in a matter of minutes.

How to get a ISFJ/ESFJ??? Well if you have looks then you already beat half the battle, I would advise you to study the function stacks first and learn all the different types. Isfj/esfj are attracted to types that use Introverted Intuition and Extraverted sensing the most. So Work on these two functions of yours to increase your success rate of attracting them

Any Questions? If so ask me..

 

[SidharthTheSlayer]

My mother is an ESFJ and she can't begin to understand me one bit. I'm INTJ for reference.

 

[Kevin_Logan]

Any Questions? If so ask me..

What are you smoking?

 

[Tabula Rasa]

@Raskolnikov might find this interesting. He is also interested in function stacks, mbti and the like.

 

[Raskolnikov]

I am an INTJ and I would relate the most to a xNFP gf. I need strong Ne for complimentary intuition as well as aux/ter Fi/Te interchangeably.
An ISFJ would be alright I suppose but ESFJ being Fe dominants are just pure suicide, would still prefer INFJ over ISFJ for Ni relatability.

 

[Raskolnikov]

My mother is an ESFJ and she can't begin to understand me one bit. I'm INTJ for reference.

My mother is ENFJ (Fe dom like yours, but with Ni aux instead of Si) which makes her able to relate to a lot of my unconscious and unspoken ways of interacting with and understanding the world. She still perceives me as being alien tier intuitive and smart, just drawing insight from the world around me and finding answers where other people can't even begin to conceptualize the questions.