Help Your oneitises have a psychological explanation.

[Chuddha]

In my case, what happened was that I wasn't looking to have sex with them, what I was really looking for was their validation. This is due to wounds from my childhood and the lack of validation from my parents, all reflected in how I tried to help them, but this is only a reflection of me trying to help my inner child.

Story - I sabotaged a possible relationship with an autistic hard-working girl because blackpill beliefs.

Yes, as you read the title, there was an autistic girl who was introduced to me by my therapist. She has had a hard life not gonna lie. Being somewhat autistic as a girl tends to be brutal since autistic women are more individualistic; behaviour which tends to be easily punished by NT women...

elysianfields.se

^ This also explains why I screwed up with a girl who wanted to be with me while I chased this other “unattainable” girl, because it allowed me to avoid confronting my abandonment trauma.

All the answers are within you guys, just keep meditating.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

Humans are very needy

 

[Plukee :):]

Humans are very needy

True especially women and a lot of normie men too

 

[Plukee :):]

Story - I sabotaged a possible relationship with an autistic hard-working girl because blackpill beliefs.

Yes, as you read the title, there was an autistic girl who was introduced to me by my therapist. She has had a hard life not gonna lie. Being somewhat autistic as a girl tends to be brutal since autistic women are more individualistic; behaviour which tends to be easily punished by NT women...

elysianfields.se

i think @Muttcel Foid Killer can ascend with an autistic girl

 

[Garou]

You are an abused dog, i am too. Once you become an abused dog, you cannot undo the damage/trauma, you are one for life and no amount of meditation or whatever it is you're doing is going to fix it. Sorry.

 

[Chuddha]

You are an abused dog, i am too. Once you become an abused dog, you cannot undo the damage/trauma, you are one for life and no amount of meditation or whatever it is you're doing is going to fix it. Sorry.

Just try and let the magic happen.

 

[Garou]

Just try and let the magic happen.

Maybe that's just the depression in me talking, i am in full despair mode and have zero hope about the future, kinda goes against the whitepill but that's my current state.

 

[Chuddha]

Maybe that's just the depression in me talking, i am in full despair mode and have zero hope about the future, kinda goes against the whitepill but that's my current state.

Don't worry, after all that's the conditioned nature of the self in the sense that everything we feel and think is impermanent. One day, you wake up and despair is all there is, and so your thoughts are about dispair, but the day of tomorrow you feel better and start to meditate. Meditation makes you feel good, so now you think life's worth living, but the cycle repeats, and thus tomorrow you wake up in despair, and so despair is all there is and so on.

Meditation will allow you to break free of this cycle of feeling-good-felling-bad. It takes effort, but it is highly worth it nonetheless.

 

[LOOKISM-LOGIC]

What if you do not have oneitis’ , but girls you just want to fuck from time to time, not really commit to.

 

[Zygo=cheekbone]

You are an abused dog, i am too. Once you become an abused dog, you cannot undo the damage/trauma, you are one for life and no amount of meditation or whatever it is you're doing is going to fix it. Sorry.

It's possible but unlikely. Even now there are substances that rewire the brain / cause neurogenesis not replicable by any lifestyle change. The question is if neuronal rewiring can ever be made so straightforward that we can accurately predict behavioral changes just by mapping synapses in brain regions

 

[Chuddha]

It's possible but unlikely. Even now there are substances that rewire the brain / cause neurogenesis not replicable by any lifestyle change. The question is if neuronal rewiring can ever be made so straightforward that we can accurately predict behavioral changes just by mapping synapses in brain regions

Just start being silent, I mean do not talk within your head, and you will realize that your thoughts are not your thoughts. From this realization alone you will have more power to start detaching from thoughts related to trauma and social anxiety. It is all about becoming non-reactive to whatever shit your mind tells you. That's how you slowly lose any social problems like anxiety and shit.

The biggest mistake you can do if you want to heal mentally is to identify with whatever shit your mind thinks about. That's why I say your biggest power in this life will always be no reacting.