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Discussion what does the insult "gay" actually mean

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considering when i see some guy with their girlfriend outside i usually think "gayyyy" or "what a fag", it doesn't mean homosexual. although most homosexuals also act fruity and gay

other gay things:
having a high paid low mogging job like nurse or programmer
caring, being tryhard
taking things seriously, getting mad
being up tight, like theres a stick up your ass (metaphorically)
letting a female have power over you
PC/cancel culture
believing that you've prevented yourself from being sick through hand-washing
atheism
redditors
passive-agression
a rational or "scientific worldview"
being afraid (fear is always a little gay)
aversion to mud
 
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Unmasculine basically

Samuel Delaney who is gay never came out as such in the 50s/60s in new York. Because he associated gay with "camp" he details

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Notice how it maps on perfectly lol. Being a follower, effeminate etc

With atheism the implication is the man relinquished a patriarchal religion as opposed so a Vietnamese farmer or something
 
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The things in this list can be seen as being submissive, overtly feminine, high inhib, etc.

Unmasculine basically

Samuel Delaney who is gay never came out as such in the 50s/60s in new York. Because he associated gay with "camp" he details

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Notice how it maps on perfectly lol. Being a follower, effeminate etc

With atheism the implication is the man relinquished a patriarchal religion as opposed so a Vietnamese farmer or something
I thought about unmasculine but then I asked myself the collorary: would it be acceptable/any better for a female to have these traits?

-no, not really. Pretty much all deal breakers for a relationship if they were displayed. I can't imagine most women are actually afraid of bugs instead of it being flirting tactic. But i would have to ask them:

are you a child? Why are you degrading yourself by acting in this foolish way with me specifically? Do you want me to be your father?

Exception being it's OK for a female to be a programmer, which was originally a female-dominated field descended from secretaries, stenographers, typist, actuaries and clerical staff.
 
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Unmasculine basically

Samuel Delaney who is gay never came out as such in the 50s/60s in new York. Because he associated gay with "camp" he details

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Notice how it maps on perfectly lol. Being a follower, effeminate etc

With atheism the implication is the man relinquished a patriarchal religion as opposed so a Vietnamese farmer or something
"masculinity" is pretty gay tbh
at least whatever tradcucks argue for
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I would say its more about independence. When you call something gay are you talking about the gay top mogger? or the bottom fag cuck. Obviously the latter
 
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Programmers are usually high inhib but why is nurse on that list?
Nurse is a highly competitive job where you actually don't paid that much after factoring in how arduous the job is. Draw is high social validation.

they have contests where they see how long they can hold in their piss because there's often no time for bathroom breaks. Oh yeah? You had to go for 12 hours? I had a 48 hour emergency shift where I was waging hard the whole time, casual wagie.

in the social hierarchy it's accepted you are below any doctor and interacting with patients is like customer service at wallmart but bigger freakouts cuz they think you're trying to kill them instead of stiff them on a box of cheez-its. Mean girls like social hierarchy within nurses.

If you're grinding to become a Nurse Practitioner, which is doctor like and has subordinates, it's different.

there is a push for the idea of the "cool" or "chill" male nurse that's been going on for a few years which is probably why you think it's a weird inclusion. The image that's pushed is male nurse = nonchalant white htn with a slight hint of surfer or skateboarder
 
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