Discussion What is your biggest insecurity?

[UglyBastard]

Mine is probably the fact that I have a tight foreskin (phimosis). I didn't go after women all my life because of that. I once read somewhere on the internet that women finds phimosis disgusting.

 

[Loner]

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[Amor Fati]

Mine is probably the fact that I have a tight foreskin (phimosis). I didn't go after women all my life because of that. I once read somewhere on the internet that women finds phimosis disgusting.

I used to have it but I fixed it with stretching

 

[fartcannon420]

being an autist, probably. it's put me into a lot of extremely uncomfortable, unnecessary and frankly ridiculous situations that probably would have been avoided if i could have reacted "normally" or not said something retarded.

i commend your guy's confidence to mention that, by the way.

 

[UglyBastard]

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This one looks pretty tough since you can't hide from other people. At least in my case they don't know about my condition.
I am sorry.

I used to have it but I fixed it with stretching

In my case just stretching is not enough. I have like 95% of the "tip" covered in skin. Trying to stretch often causes bleeding.
But well, that's how the God decided to make me. Maybe there is something to it.

being an autist, probably. it's put me into a lot of extremely uncomfortable, unnecessary and frankly ridiculous situations that probably would have been avoided if i could have reacted "normally" or not said something retarded.

i commend your guy's confidence to mention that, by the way.

Based autistic lad. I myself am not autistic, but my best childhood friend was autistic. I have huge respect for autistic people, specially for this old friend of mine.
We don't talk anymore, not because of any bad-blood or something, our paths just went different in life. He managed to find someone in the Rotary organisation and they ended up marrying (she's autistic as well).

 

[Amor Fati]

This one looks pretty tough since you can't hide from other people. At least in my case they don't know about my condition.
I am sorry.

In my case just stretching is not enough. I have like 95% of the "tip" covered in skin. Trying to stretch often causes bleeding.
But well, that's how the God decided to make me. Maybe there is something to it.

Based autistic lad. I myself am not autistic, but my best childhood friend was autistic. I have huge respect for autistic people, specially for this old friend of mine.
We don't talk anymore, not because of any bad-blood or something, our paths just went different in life. He managed to find someone in the Rotary organisation and they ended up marrying (she's autistic as well).

Have you considered getting steroid creams prescribed? I was using them for a period as well and it might have helped.

 

[fartcannon420]

In my case just stretching is not enough. I have like 95% of the "tip" covered in skin. Trying to stretch often causes bleeding.
But well, that's how the God decided to make me. Maybe there is something to it.

i myself cannot comment due to ritualistic mutilation, but as long as you're slowly working on it, it should begin to ease up

 

[UglyBastard]

Have you considered getting steroid creams prescribed? I was using them for a period as well and it might have helped.

I used a steroid cream when I was younger, but it didn't make any difference. Those creams are good for kids since their skin is more "flexible".
For adults it's harder to work, maybe in cases when you have just a little bit of tight skin (like only covering 5-10% of the "tip") the cream might work. But in my case I need to cut the skin out. Well, that doesn't bother me anymore. As I said before, it's not like solving this issue would solve my problems. I would still be very shy to be with a foid.

 

[fartcannon420]

I used a steroid cream when I was younger, but it didn't make any difference. Those creams are good for kids since their skin is more "flexible".
For adults it's harder to work, maybe in cases when you have just a little bit of tight skin (like only covering 5-10% of the "tip") the cream might work. But in my case I need to cut the skin out. Well, that doesn't bother me anymore. As I said before, it's not like solving this issue would solve my problems. I would still be very shy to be with a foid.

try after a warm shower when your skin has more elasticity.

 

[Personality Haver]

idk lol

 

[Deleted member 69]

Circumcision is a permanent solution but you lose sensitivity and will be in pain for a few days