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This "love"
emotion... it is something that has to be destroyed
, erradicated
, annihilated
, and ultimately expulsed from the biological system so that the narcissistic evolutive psychological structure that makes a man suffer in regards to women
doesn't get activated. In order to get there, it should be of utmost importance that he cultivates it through practices as metta
meditation
immediately. If the biological machine understands that it can generate the feeling of love
by self-consciousness practices, then the narcissistic suffering
which only cares about reproduction will be hopefully annihilated.
It will also be of utmost importance the application of Internal Family Systems which is an advanced and maybe exotic form of therapy for some because it requires of you to talk with your own parts. Many people laugh at things like the "inner child"
, but in my experience many of these things appear to be true, but not as we do usually think about them. We might think about an entity living inside the head, but it is not. This thing belongs to the realm of thought
. Many people say that thoughts get "frozen" in time which corresponds to belief systems formed by trauma or defficiency of paternal
and maternal
appropiate nurture. You have to destroy
, annihilate
, and deconstruct
all sort of neurotic traumatic structures which if you ask me, based on my poor understanding of neuroscience of course, it makes sense that there are neural pathways that were conditioned to be so strong that they might be "frozen" in time.
The importance of doing the aforementioned procedure is to get rid of childish
neurotic structures which might have arisen in infancy, this trauma which causes mommy or daddy issues might affect the subject capacity to relate to the femenine and the masculine. Not everybody needs this of course. It is to be subjected to the criteria of every individual. Not everyone has been subjected to bad parenting.
One thing the subject should be very careful is of not using sexuality
in order to fill or satisfy any desires which are not of a sexual nature by themselves, such as the desire to feel loved
as it can easily start an addiction to material of pornographic
nature. Thus it is recommended to abstain from this kind of material and first try to fix the neurotic structures that demand love before consuming any sort of pornographic
content. WARNING: It is not secret that this content provides emotional regulation in a world filled with lots of disturbances, so the subject should be very careful of applying this and it only should be done when his ability to generate the neurochemical state of love is of a great degree so that his life satisfaction is appropiate, which avoids relapsing and thus suffering and frustration.
It will also be of utmost importance the application of Internal Family Systems which is an advanced and maybe exotic form of therapy for some because it requires of you to talk with your own parts. Many people laugh at things like the "inner child"
The importance of doing the aforementioned procedure is to get rid of childish
One thing the subject should be very careful is of not using sexuality
Good luck to the subjects.
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