Most people follow their biological programming without ever thinking, understanding or asking why, especially why they want the things they do. Most people run on instinct and emotion rather than logic or reason. I asked my discord acquaintance why he wanted kids and he couldn’t give me an answer. He said that he just does. I assume men want kids to pass down a legacy. They seem to care a lot abt legacy and that kind of shit. Men want to provide for and raise a family. It’s like coded for in their genetics. I thought caretaking and raising stuff (children, pets, plants, whatever) was a female trait so I was confused why men wanted to have kids and raise a family but I guess it’s women mainly taking care of the kids anyway. I’m not sure why men want to provide for a family. I guess it’s a show of strength for them,
like “look at me I have something to provide for!” even tho I believe providing for anyone or anything is cucked and gay. Maybe they take pride in having a family to support, making all their wageslaving “worth it”. I’m a girl tho so I’ll never fully understand men and their way of thinking. I think the main reason men want kids tho is to spread their genetics and exert dominance over other men, like “look at me I’m passing down my genes and lineage (by having kids. My genes and lineage are worthy of being passed down and already have been mwahaha)”. So by having kids, men are basically mogging other men. Btw this also ties into what I mentioned before abt legacy. By having kids, men are creating a genetic legacy and passing down their lineage
Tbh I should become a psychologist, sociologist or anthropologist. I’ve always felt like an outsider among humans (not that I want to fit in with them anyways) so I try to study humans and their behavior. I guess I want to understand them even tho they’re alien to me and I don’t want to be like them. I find them intriguing cuz they’re so different from me. I’ve also always felt like an observer rather than a participant in life