Whitepill I feel like hating women has made me more enlightened

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I don't know how I feel about it. Sometimes I despise their hiveminded instincts, other times I feel they're light years ahead of me in terms of all conceivable value metrics. I remember overhearing a girl in grade nine talking about loving fellatio or something. She was pretty, too. A couple of years later I find out she's a gymfluencer (with an onlyfans if I remember). She had exhausted her sexual experiences at an age where I still thought of romance was pure, she was an "adult" well before I ever became one, which even then I find dubious considering the lack of a sexual awakening in my life.
 
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I don't know how I feel about it. Sometimes I despise their hiveminded instincts, other times I feel they're light years ahead of me in terms of all conceivable value metrics. I remember overhearing a girl in grade nine talking about loving fellatio or something. She was pretty, too. A couple of years later I find out she's a gymfluencer (with an onlyfans if I remember). She had exhausted her sexual experiences at an age where I still thought of romance was pure, she was an "adult" well before I ever became one, which even then I find dubious considering the lack of a sexual awakening in my life.
Women are generally more socially successful because they are conformist and deferent to the existing social structures that are in place today. This occurred as society gradually shed itself of its patriarchal norms and our economies grew increasingly more complex and specialized.
 
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I've never really seen the women/men divide as so binary. When I'm talking to someone, I just see them as an individual, sure there's overlap on population level, but that's just statistical averages. The "hive mindset" argument doesn't even track with my own experience, since I've always lived in highly egalitarian, well-educated area. So maybe some bias from me. I still acknowledge group differences where they exist, but I'll never really see people as aggregates.
 
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I've never really seen the women/men divide as so binary. When I'm talking to someone, I just see them as an individual, sure there's overlap on population level, but that's just statistical averages. The "hive mindset" argument doesn't even track with my own experience, since I've always lived in highly egalitarian, well-educated area. So maybe some bias from me. I still acknowledge group differences where they exist, but I'll never really see people as aggregates.
There's probably something to that, but I've only really interacted with my cousins and her friends who all share the same instincts.

There was a screencap a while back arguing that women are incapable of making generalizations, for instance: "Asian men are shorter on average? I've known tall asian guys though!" or "I know a guy who is short and has a girlfriend, so it can't possibly be your height!" To my recollection it became a sort of "gotcha" for a while, a lot of people gloating about how retarded women were and such. It just seems dishonest, but at the same time I'm sure there are a lot of people who genuinely do hold those beliefs and so fuel the fire.

There seems to be this clash between factbound anecdote (case-by-case, as with women) and autism working to canvas initial priors (over-systemizing). There isn't really any safe angle to assume a middle ground, you just get called a poseur or a retard and you're left with nothing to talk about.
 
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There's probably something to that, but I've only really interacted with my cousins and her friends who all share the same instincts.

There was a screencap a while back arguing that women are incapable of making generalizations, for instance: "Asian men are shorter on average? I've known tall asian guys though!" or "I know a guy who is short and has a girlfriend, so it can't possibly be your height!" To my recollection it became a sort of "gotcha" for a while, a lot of people gloating about how retarded women were and such. It just seems dishonest, but at the same time I'm sure there are a lot of people who genuinely do hold those beliefs and so fuel the fire.

There seems to be this clash between factbound anecdote (case-by-case, as with women) and autism working to canvas initial priors (over-systemizing). There isn't really any safe angle to assume a middle ground, you just get called a poseur or a retard and you're left with nothing to talk about.
Ye, I feel like you need both: Anecdotes are how you experience the world, and stats how you see the bigger picture. Picking only either side is a bit ignorant IMO.
 
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