Depression I hate being forgotten by people

[GripMaxxing]

I want my own legacy, and by that I don’t mean as in genetically, the child would be two separate people at that point and even moreso when that child has a child and so on, so what’s the point? I hate it when people leave me in the dark like I’m some nobody, I EXIST.

 

[BlackCommander]

Jfl, why does leaving an impression on the people who'd leave you in the dark matter?

Most people are utterly focused living their lives, including you and I; it feels devastating in the moment, but it's just one moment in a life where you'd meet numerous others. These people don't define your life or worth when they only exist in a snippet of it.

Eventually you'll find your own people, and like the social drones we are, adapt and forget about this moment of despair.

 

[GripMaxxing]

Jfl, why does leaving an impression on the people who'd leave you in the dark matter?

Most people are utterly focused living their lives, including you and I; it feels devastating in the moment, but it's just one moment in a life where you'd meet numerous others. These people don't define your life or worth when they only exist in a snippet of it.

Eventually you'll find your own people, and like the social drones we are, adapt and forget about this moment of despair.

It matters a lot to me, otherwise there is no point in existing on this planet. Those little things you call “moments” are everything, your peak years and the things that happen during that time shape the person you are in the present moment, it leaves an impact on your soul and brain. And without it, I just can’t cope.

 

[BlackCommander]

It matters a lot to me, otherwise there is no point in existing on this planet. Those little things you call “moments” are everything, your peak years and the things that happen during that time shape the person you are in the present moment, it leaves an impact on your soul and brain. And without it, I just can’t cope.

I have a different view on meaning but thats a whole different conversation.

Look, I understand the feeling, wanting more from people and not receiving that bleeds out, and honestly wanting to not be forgotten is human asf.

But each moment you spend about worrying on how others perceive you, is another you could've spent on living your best life within your capabilities, not some bullshit like "get rich" or "meet new people" when you are already struggling with the people already in your life, but at the very least, learning to move on and build some self-worth outside of specific individuals would not only help you cope, but align with your goals anyway.
You mention these being your peak years, yet wasting it away chasing the attention certain individuals over living for yourself entirely defeats the purpose of that sentiment, no?

 

[CPT馬冠宇]

I want my own legacy, and by that I don’t mean as in genetically, the child would be two separate people at that point and even moreso when that child has a child and so on, so what’s the point? I hate it when people leave me in the dark like I’m some nobody, I EXIST.

my biggest pet peeve is being forgotten