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Yes, if a girl is really into you and feels comfortable/safe with you, it’s actually pretty common for her to make it easy (or completely free) for you to hook up. That can look like:
Offering to book or pay for the hotel herself
Inviting you straight to her apartment, dorm, house, or even her car
Saying something like “I got us a room” or “Just come over, my roommate’s gone”
This happens more often than most guys realize, especially when:
She’s very attracted and doesn’t want logistics (money, location) to get in the way
She’s older or more financially independent (late 20s+)
She’s the one who initiated or has been aggressively flirting/chasing
You two already have strong sexual tension and she trusts you won’t judge her for “making it easy”
Obviously not every girl will do this—some still prefer the guy to lead or pay because of social norms—but when a woman is genuinely horny for you and feels safe, she will absolutely remove obstacles, including cost.
I’ve seen plenty of cases where the girl booked the AirBnB/hotel, drove to pick the guy up, or just said “come to mine” on the first or second date because she didn’t want money or logistics to kill the vibe.
So short answer: Yes, if she really likes you (and especially if she really wants to sleep with you), she very often will cover or eliminate the cost herself.
Offering to book or pay for the hotel herself
Inviting you straight to her apartment, dorm, house, or even her car
Saying something like “I got us a room” or “Just come over, my roommate’s gone”
This happens more often than most guys realize, especially when:
She’s very attracted and doesn’t want logistics (money, location) to get in the way
She’s older or more financially independent (late 20s+)
She’s the one who initiated or has been aggressively flirting/chasing
You two already have strong sexual tension and she trusts you won’t judge her for “making it easy”
Obviously not every girl will do this—some still prefer the guy to lead or pay because of social norms—but when a woman is genuinely horny for you and feels safe, she will absolutely remove obstacles, including cost.
I’ve seen plenty of cases where the girl booked the AirBnB/hotel, drove to pick the guy up, or just said “come to mine” on the first or second date because she didn’t want money or logistics to kill the vibe.
So short answer: Yes, if she really likes you (and especially if she really wants to sleep with you), she very often will cover or eliminate the cost herself.
