If you have a "focus on the outcome" mindset, social interactions feel higher stakes

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If you care about the outcome of things because you have a mindset that thrives from sense of achievements, you will likely place higher stakes on the outcomes of interactions than the typical go with the flow normie
Placing stakes on the outcome of interactions causes the sense of reward from successful social interactions to feel higher, but also cucks you in a way because caring about the outcome creates a subconscious fear of failure which causes restrictiveness which makes you appear less attractive