Lifestyle If you reach a certain age and your still not settled down married have kids, are you the biggest failure ever?

[MelaninWarlord]

Just think what all those normies with easy lives and smooth sailing lives are doing, enjoying life with their wife and 9 to 5 jobs.

Ok there's a few mavericks here and there that do their own thing, a few onlyfans girls and IG thots and drug addicts fine. Some people are creative and are making music or producing films and entertainers, comedy and all that stuff.

I just feel like we're missing out on the vital human experience and milestone.

These people have ascended to a stage in their lives and did what biology expects them to do and God in the first bible page said to "Be fruitful and multiply".

And we're the failures that rot and cope and distract ourselves. Some of us are even schizo and barely getting by.

Life is basically agony with only fleeting moments of happiness.

 

[Memento Mori]

It's an arbitrary social metric that doesn't necessarily need to be realized.

Not everyone is made out to be the best father/husband (and vice-versa). Some people just shouldn't end up having kids imo.

I know people end up feeling hollow in life because they're shackled down with wife and kids and they're not fulfilling or didn't end up fulfilling their life's purpose, or missed out on certain opportunities and didn't overextend themselves.

If you weren't destined for great things, then maybe.

 

[The Patriarchy]

There only one person here that will call you a failure and that man is Apollo

Also Im getting at you decide what you want to do, not society