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When I lived back home in a rural area, I had plenty of friends and I was known to exist by a decent amount of people, but I never made any social impact outside of my closest friend group who had awareness of the top tier value I brought which couldn't be expressed around groups of mongs
I was a late bloomer so I never reached a point where I was simultaneously goodlooking enough and well developed enough for my age for foids who knew me to go out of their way to express interest when I didn't play the social game like NT normies did
I went to uni in a 200k population city and got some results over the 4 years but nothing amazing
When I moved to a 1 million city after uni, I was fully looksmaxxed in terms of pre surgery looksmaxxes and my slaying started to go into overdrive
The restraints that were cucking me in my uni city, like it being awkward to go out solo (even though I did it during my clubbing week of final 4th year semester) felt completely removed and there were now more options on dating apps within a 5km radius that dumpster diving would eventually be rewarded with slays through sheer numbers game.
The constraints in the 200k uni city was that it was in essence like a big social circle based around the university and it wasn't big enough to attract people from all walks of life meaning you'd be unlikely to slay a student on a wednesday night and a workcel foid on a saturday night, whereas in the 1million+ city that was the case although uni nights out were still notoriously difficult for slaying.
When in the uni city, none of the group of NTfags I lived with ever had a tinder meetup yet I'd had more than 5.
One foid I met from tinder even said she matched with one of the guys I lived with but said I was better looking
So the evidence was there that I was getting the meetups because I mogged the NTfags, but the NTfags were getting all of their results from social circle game.
Because the NTfags were able to keep their social circle game in play in the condensed uni circle environment, they were able to outcompete aspies irl who mogged them.
You need to be in a 1million+ population city for you looks advantage as an aspie to really create a chasm in terms of unfamiliar dating environments, because it's just to hard for these NT fags to build wider reaching social status in larger cities that aren't a little bubble.
Yes they will still have success within their tight knit social circle, but they are dependant on shit like uni environment to thrive.
The larger the city, the less you underperform relative to your looks level because numbers game becomes easier since you have to use unfamiliar methods of meeting as an aspie with no social circle
After getting surgery I moved to a 300k uni city because I felt I had exhausted the 1m city prior and wanted a change but the 300k city actually cucked me more than the 200k city because this time I was in a uni city but was no longer a student
There weren't enough clubs to find a decent one to run solo clubbing game in
It had a real "everyone's watching your moves" feel even though I only know a handful of people from the occasional work i did.
I matched with countless appealing foids I'd be happy to meet but couldn't meet any of them because they were likely "uni MTN social circle fucks" only
I ended up in a houseparty one night after I went solo clubbing and talked to some students on the street and I spend 10 minutes in a house party environment and end up slaying
I literally said to the foid that I saw her on tinder to start the interaction and she was giving me chad treatment and immediately brought me to her place to slay
Yet on tinder she didn't match with me (dont even know if she saw my profile though tbh because she is the kind of foid who would usually like my profile due to sports player archetype)
So it really felt like it was the exclusion from the environment and lack of connections that was cucking me and was not anything to do with SMV
This is why these 200-300k uni cities cause goodlooking aspies to underperform with foids
You need to be in a 1m+ city to at least get a semi decent amount of your potential unlocked even if you underperform compared to social circle maxxed MTNs
With regards to needing to find success in your home village if you don't move to a 1m+ city
I do think that if I was embedded into the social life of my home village while being looksmaxxed, some foid would surely realize that there's a single mogger available that people in the area know of and would make a good partner.
Even if you're competing on a town basis there can be too many people whereby the pricks always rise to the top but in theory if you're running village game, some foid you never directly spoke to in school is going to strike up a convo with you when they're at a social gathering with your close mates and is gonna make things relatively easy in terms of progression when they see you're a mogger now when everyone else in the village is 18% bodyfat on average
I was a late bloomer so I never reached a point where I was simultaneously goodlooking enough and well developed enough for my age for foids who knew me to go out of their way to express interest when I didn't play the social game like NT normies did
I went to uni in a 200k population city and got some results over the 4 years but nothing amazing
When I moved to a 1 million city after uni, I was fully looksmaxxed in terms of pre surgery looksmaxxes and my slaying started to go into overdrive
The restraints that were cucking me in my uni city, like it being awkward to go out solo (even though I did it during my clubbing week of final 4th year semester) felt completely removed and there were now more options on dating apps within a 5km radius that dumpster diving would eventually be rewarded with slays through sheer numbers game.
The constraints in the 200k uni city was that it was in essence like a big social circle based around the university and it wasn't big enough to attract people from all walks of life meaning you'd be unlikely to slay a student on a wednesday night and a workcel foid on a saturday night, whereas in the 1million+ city that was the case although uni nights out were still notoriously difficult for slaying.
When in the uni city, none of the group of NTfags I lived with ever had a tinder meetup yet I'd had more than 5.
One foid I met from tinder even said she matched with one of the guys I lived with but said I was better looking
So the evidence was there that I was getting the meetups because I mogged the NTfags, but the NTfags were getting all of their results from social circle game.
Because the NTfags were able to keep their social circle game in play in the condensed uni circle environment, they were able to outcompete aspies irl who mogged them.
You need to be in a 1million+ population city for you looks advantage as an aspie to really create a chasm in terms of unfamiliar dating environments, because it's just to hard for these NT fags to build wider reaching social status in larger cities that aren't a little bubble.
Yes they will still have success within their tight knit social circle, but they are dependant on shit like uni environment to thrive.
The larger the city, the less you underperform relative to your looks level because numbers game becomes easier since you have to use unfamiliar methods of meeting as an aspie with no social circle
After getting surgery I moved to a 300k uni city because I felt I had exhausted the 1m city prior and wanted a change but the 300k city actually cucked me more than the 200k city because this time I was in a uni city but was no longer a student
There weren't enough clubs to find a decent one to run solo clubbing game in
It had a real "everyone's watching your moves" feel even though I only know a handful of people from the occasional work i did.
I matched with countless appealing foids I'd be happy to meet but couldn't meet any of them because they were likely "uni MTN social circle fucks" only
I ended up in a houseparty one night after I went solo clubbing and talked to some students on the street and I spend 10 minutes in a house party environment and end up slaying
I literally said to the foid that I saw her on tinder to start the interaction and she was giving me chad treatment and immediately brought me to her place to slay
Yet on tinder she didn't match with me (dont even know if she saw my profile though tbh because she is the kind of foid who would usually like my profile due to sports player archetype)
So it really felt like it was the exclusion from the environment and lack of connections that was cucking me and was not anything to do with SMV
This is why these 200-300k uni cities cause goodlooking aspies to underperform with foids
You need to be in a 1m+ city to at least get a semi decent amount of your potential unlocked even if you underperform compared to social circle maxxed MTNs
With regards to needing to find success in your home village if you don't move to a 1m+ city
I do think that if I was embedded into the social life of my home village while being looksmaxxed, some foid would surely realize that there's a single mogger available that people in the area know of and would make a good partner.
Even if you're competing on a town basis there can be too many people whereby the pricks always rise to the top but in theory if you're running village game, some foid you never directly spoke to in school is going to strike up a convo with you when they're at a social gathering with your close mates and is gonna make things relatively easy in terms of progression when they see you're a mogger now when everyone else in the village is 18% bodyfat on average
