The labels are a psy op. This is what I realize
Bisexual/gay/etc aren't real concepts. Less so than incel which is almost impossible to define
My frame of reference is my mom
I woild be grossed out at the idea of sex with her, a huge betrayal
But I see no issue with us cuddling in the same bed, using her chest as pillow etc
You incels wouldnt know, but a chest-heavy woman is a better pillow than ones in the hotel. Comfort wise
You can be repulsed by one thing but not the other