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Having moved away from my home country I feel it's given me a blank slate when it comes to dating women
I was unfortunate enough to receive poor treatment from my mother growing up, which can create a subconscious neediness when it comes to trying to date women as you get older
Being seen as invisible in school and not passing the NT threshold plays a role in the long run of wanting to feel adequate in the nation where foids first rejected you, this probably contributed in some part to my later slaying obsession in adulthood
When a foid you're actually attracted to starts showing some interest, it causes you to care too much about the outcome but you're already at a deficit which you can't make up because of how far ahead normies are in comparison to you because they had the popular HTBs eating out of their hand since day 1 thanks to social status, whereas you never tasted that social status halo even for a day meaning you're resigned to slaying foids from clubs / dating apps that are 1-2 lookslevels below you.
After moving country and sleeping with a couple of girls it just feels like the foids here would be far less capable of having power over me than foids of my native country
If I sleep with a foid I'm 10 years older than in my new country, I simply see them as someone who's opinion I have no reason to take seriously who I have no connection to
If I sleep with a foid I'm 10 years older than in my own country, despite the age mog they will still be able to pull little stunts and tactics that would've worked on me when I was 18-20. While they may not work on me now it's just the fact they have those tactics in their arsenal that I was previously victim to by girls of the same nationality makes me have to be on alert.
When you are dealing with foids of a different country who you don't see as someone who could be your potential daughter or could fill in for the void from the lack of a good relationship with your mother, they don't hold the same power over you as foids from your own country who can give off those impressions whether you want them to or not
You are starting form a blank slate with and can view them from a far more rational sense and not from an emotional sense which makes you care about them less which makes dealing with them easier once your foot is in the door
I was unfortunate enough to receive poor treatment from my mother growing up, which can create a subconscious neediness when it comes to trying to date women as you get older
Being seen as invisible in school and not passing the NT threshold plays a role in the long run of wanting to feel adequate in the nation where foids first rejected you, this probably contributed in some part to my later slaying obsession in adulthood
When a foid you're actually attracted to starts showing some interest, it causes you to care too much about the outcome but you're already at a deficit which you can't make up because of how far ahead normies are in comparison to you because they had the popular HTBs eating out of their hand since day 1 thanks to social status, whereas you never tasted that social status halo even for a day meaning you're resigned to slaying foids from clubs / dating apps that are 1-2 lookslevels below you.
After moving country and sleeping with a couple of girls it just feels like the foids here would be far less capable of having power over me than foids of my native country
If I sleep with a foid I'm 10 years older than in my new country, I simply see them as someone who's opinion I have no reason to take seriously who I have no connection to
If I sleep with a foid I'm 10 years older than in my own country, despite the age mog they will still be able to pull little stunts and tactics that would've worked on me when I was 18-20. While they may not work on me now it's just the fact they have those tactics in their arsenal that I was previously victim to by girls of the same nationality makes me have to be on alert.
When you are dealing with foids of a different country who you don't see as someone who could be your potential daughter or could fill in for the void from the lack of a good relationship with your mother, they don't hold the same power over you as foids from your own country who can give off those impressions whether you want them to or not
You are starting form a blank slate with and can view them from a far more rational sense and not from an emotional sense which makes you care about them less which makes dealing with them easier once your foot is in the door
