Sex is not hard to get, anyone could have sex with a prostitute or find a very loose woman to give their virginity away, the reason why many incels do not is because they want self-actualization and purpose, not sex. I disagree with the incel fetishization of sexual opportunity as some kind of panacea for life. Sex is a proxy and most incels really want a different brain and social position (to be desired, high value and neurotypical, and to have neural patterns that signify a high sense of value), it signifies a want for external value (that is usually very lacking), which is totally normal, but I don't think sex is the root. As a neurodivergent or ugly male you have to generate an internal sense of purpose because others aren't going to supplement your ego.
My main point of contention is that blackpillers/incels tend to ruminate on their lack of sexual opportunity almost as if they are writing cuck fanfiction. Nobody needs to be told 'you can never have this' or 'this is what your oneitis is doing while you rot' but this sort of demoralization spreads like a virus in blackpill spaces, I am just saying that this sort of demoralization becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and will probably lead to even more severe neurosis/social withdrawal.
