Whitepill Life isn't too bad without girlfriend

[Saint Ricecel.]

forecast is right, not having recipriocated love is absolutely freaking brutal

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I do not care what some 200BC nerd thought, I love hot babes and I will not change this view.

Cuck

 

[autistic_tendencies]

forecast is right, not having recipriocated love is absolutely freaking brutal

Love yourself first

 

[Forecast]

Cuck

Homo

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Homo

I ain’t gay. I just realize a hot babe will never love me

 

[PoopyPigeon]

Most incels are exaggerating man, i have very minimum female interaction in my life but i really never thought it's THAT important.

There are countless man who never get to experience sex, but they have good friends, family and genuinely enjoy life.

I think if people starts to build better connection around them like more friends and focusing on hobbies, then it will solve many headaches.We live in a modern world after all so countless copes!

So if you are someone that's struggling with getting a girlfriend then i will say, there's nothing special in life, everything is a chemical reaction that can be replaced so don't think of love like some special feeling that can never be replicated with different things.

Bro woke up and chose to spit fax.

 

[JayJay]

Most incels are exaggerating man, i have very minimum female interaction in my life but i really never thought it's THAT important.

There are countless man who never get to experience sex, but they have good friends, family and genuinely enjoy life.

I think if people starts to build better connection around them like more friends and focusing on hobbies, then it will solve many headaches.We live in a modern world after all so countless copes!

So if you are someone that's struggling with getting a girlfriend then i will say, there's nothing special in life, everything is a chemical reaction that can be replaced so don't think of love like some special feeling that can never be replicated with different things.

You'all should practice loving kindness meditation to generate the neurochemical state of love by yourselves alone, plus healing trauma in the process, but you all won't do it.

 

[wait whattt? :o]

You'all should practice loving kindness meditation to generate the neurochemical state of love by yourselves alone, plus healing trauma in the process, but you all won't do it.

Sorry, we're busy goonmaxxing

But you right, we should focus on self-love fr

 

[JayJay]

Sorry, we're busy goonmaxxing

But you right, we should focus on self-love fr

I mean, let's stop fucking around with this stupid concept. As men, I'll put it simply and logical: We can generate the neurochemical state of love by meditation and lovind kindness practices which make you feel fulfilled and loved. Just by yourself, you don't need any woman. Libido? That's another thing, just fap the shit of out that or go look for some bitch out there, but people kill themselves just because they don't feel this emotion. Not feeling loved makes you behave like a fucking childddddddddddd. Very bothersome when you are interacting with woman. You don't need CONFIDENCE, you need to feel LOVED. It really makes the difference.

 

[wait whattt? :o]

I mean, let's stop fucking around with this stupid concept. As men, I'll put it simply and logical: We can generate the neurochemical state of love by meditation and lovind kindness practices which make you feel fulfilled and loved. Just by yourself, you don't need any woman. Libido? That's another thing, just fap the shit of out that or go look for some bitch out there, but people kill themselves just because they don't feel this emotion. Not feeling loved makes you behave like a fucking childddddddddddd. Very bothersome when you are interacting with woman. You don't need CONFIDENCE, you need to feel LOVED. It really makes the difference.

I did not yet get into meditation but maybe I will some day. In the mean time, I am focused on myself as a character and I'm pretty much just reflecting on my personal journal. Been doing that for a while now. It helped tremendously and it continues to help me to this day.

 

[Schwarzwald]

True, I feel like social withdrawal is a much more preferable option to whatever clownshit you have to deal with interacting with others in society

But we all have our special brand of clown shit and sometimes we do find like minded clowns to shit in the street with and it's magical and colorful like the rainbow when it all lines up.

 

[Enju]

I wouldn't say I disagree. I really don't think it's worth putting up the time and effort to maintain a relationship with a woman who truly doesn't desire you (reality for most men). It's not worth the mind games, and the constant nagging and narcissism that comes with dating a woman. As for the "it's just a chemical reaction brooo". It's not too far from the truth, once we jerk off, the feeling of wanting a relationship may slowly fade. But if this was true, our problems would be solved by just visiting hookers to fulfill our sexual needs. But from other user anecdotes on BP forums, it never seems to quench the want for a relationship.

Nietzsche phrased it this way, "When entering a marriage, one should ask the question: do you think you will be able to have good conversations with this woman right into old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory, but most of the time in interaction is spent in conversation." Of course, the relationship shouldn't be void of intimacy as that's one of the main components. And I'm still not 100% sure I agree with Nietzsche since women don't seem to value starting a family and connection with men. Rather they value quick dopamine hits, which is why they have high body counts and constantly seek out hook ups.

 

[Schwarzwald]

Partners can me extremely taxing.

 

[Schwarzwald]

I wouldn't say I disagree. I really don't think it's worth putting up the time and effort to maintain a relationship with a woman who truly doesn't desire you (reality for most men). It's not worth the mind games, and the constant nagging and narcissism that comes with dating a woman. As for the "it's just a chemical reaction brooo". It's not too far from the truth, once we jerk off, the feeling of wanting a relationship may slowly fade. But if this was true, our problems would be solved by just visiting hookers to fulfill our sexual needs. But from other user anecdotes on BP forums, it never seems to quench the want for a relationship.

Nietzsche phrased it this way, "When entering a marriage, one should ask the question: do you think you will be able to have good conversations with this woman right into old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory, but most of the time in interaction is spent in conversation." Of course, the relationship shouldn't be void of intimacy as that's one of the main components. And I'm still not 100% sure I agree with Nietzsche since women don't seem to value starting a family and connection with men. Rather they value quick dopamine hits, which is why they have high body counts and constantly seek out hook ups.

I love Nietzsche for the soul, but he was never the best authority on women. Personally I'm split between Schopenhauer and Jung. It sounds like a contradiction but they’re both right, there is no unified theory for human nature. You have to see both the gritty, biological mechanics and the deep, archetypal essence to find the middle ground.

No man needs a woman to be complete—you are the main character of your own story. But interacting with the feminine is a catalyst, it can forge you into a whole different being, for better or worse.

If you treat it like a chemical reaction, you’ll just get a lab result. If you treat it like a 4D puzzle, you might actually get a non-euclidean result that current stats can’t explain. But I understand that can be hard when you have been let down more then a few times. Just trying to be constructive, much love.