There is a problem with most pill and with a lot of other groups and categories, unfortunately the world is often more gray than black or white, and if you try to focus on what it fits or not, you will just end up without a home, or something to follow, call it being a loser or call it avoiding sheep mentality.
It makes me remember something, The original forum is gone, but I remember reading about the concept of the "Dark Blue" on the Italian incelosphere.
The Dark Blue pill isn’t just about rejecting the blue pill illusions or the false hopes of the red pill. It also avoids the black pill overly negative view of life.
it’s about accepting your social status or looks and focusing on other parts of life for happiness and fulfillment.
It’s a middle path. living fully without fighting or giving in to the realities of attraction and social dynamics
I recall user "Adinur" explaing some things about it, being part of his bigger "Alba Theory":
"A dear friend, tired of continuous rejections and failures, asked me for advice on how to avoid being daily conditioned by this enormous gap that affects us all.
- Mental Preparation: Let go of all negative (or positive) thoughts about women, not being misogynistic, nor a doormat; start thinking your life could be without a woman by your side. Maybe for most of you, this won't be the case, but acknowledging a possible reality isn't harmful.
- Behavioral Preparation: Don't try to directly approach any girl. No initiatives on chat, Facebook, WhatsApp. Only respond if sought out. Never ask for a number on the street, never try an approach. But don't isolate yourself, go out with friends and do outdoor activities. Every day you don't act like a B2 perceived doormat will be a victory.
- Physical Preparation: Your sexuality will rebel, force you to try with women despite failures, evident ugliness, and various issues. Manage sexuality in a modern, contemporary, prejudice-free way. If someone wants you, and you don't try, good for you, you'll have sex, maybe you're even quite handsome. Don't fall into the trap of following your biology; just as female hypergamy is due to overexposure to alpha models, we are overexposed to female images and in reality desire much more than we need"
And this was from his much bigger ALBA theory:
The name ALBA comes from the acronym for ALpha-BetA: women choose men based on alpha-perception, which depends on culture, genetics, fashion, and times. Ugliness doesn't help because an ugly man is beta-perceived, meaning he's seen as unsuitable for reproduction.
Here are the categories of
alpha-perceived males:
- A0: Men who are like gods, football players, or messiahs. This is a special category as they are extremely rare, men that 99% of women will never have. Hence, it's numbered with a zero.
- A1: Very handsome, charismatic men who always have one or two relationships, true men, tough, and they make women suffer. They are the quintessential seducers.
- A2: Very handsome men whose excessive beauty is their status of alpha-perception. They are wanted no matter what they do.
- A3: Men who are either handsome or not, very determined and confident, generally rich or well-off. They usually marry a very beautiful woman and are somewhat faithful to her. They have women proportional to their beauty, often with good hypergamy.
- A4: Intense, very passionate, determined, romantic, and heroic men. In contemporary times, they still have prominent beauty.
- A5: Generally ugly but rich, exploitative, or manipulative men. They have no respect for women, who drool over them. The strongest even defeat A1s, but not A0s.
- A6: Men with great artistic and communicative abilities. Singers, dancers, entertainers in general. Less commonly, intellectual artists.
- A7: Violent, ignorant, vulgar men. Women adore them and joyfully accept violence from them
Beta-perceived Males:
- B1: Handsome or very cute men, but essentially weak, they go from one relationship to another because they're insecure and unstable. Women like them at first but leave them shortly after.
- B2: Generally nice and cute men, sociable, boy scout types, generous. They have good rapport with women but remain just friends. Friendzoners. Women tend to despise B2s, and when they get into relationships with them, they usually just want to cheat.
- B3: Neither beautiful nor ugly, neither smart nor stupid. Average men. B3s make up 50% of the male population and generally have few relationships, marrying whoever they find. Women cheat on them with alphas after several years of relationship.
- B4: Unstable, exotic, whiny, and troubled men, artists, singers, painters of no fame or value. They are similar to A4s but, living in a fairy tale world, are generally discarded by women due to objective ugliness.
- B5: Men genetically destined for solitude. Wrong social dynamics, tendency towards isolation, objective ugliness. Emotional problems from childhood. Intellectuals and paranoiacs, inconsistent.
- B6: Truly ugly men. A man is B6-perceived when a woman remembers him only for his ugliness. Aesthetic level <4.
- B7: Isolated men, with severe social problems even in friendships and acquaintances. Their condition can prevent them from being part of a group or doing simple things. Objectively ugly
So much bullshit for what?
Apparently after a year of this approach, you gain several benefits.
Your body will have fewer harmful substances, and people around you will respect you more since you’re not chasing around for clout and attention.
You’ll understand that being clingy or overly submissive or trying to be funny like me where it just leads to making being fun of doesn’t lead to success...or any kind of attention.
This method also gives you a clear idea of your attractiveness. Posting photos on social media without initiating contact lets you see if others reach out naturally. If no one does after a year, it’s a reliable indicator of how you’re perceived (it is what i say since forever, if what you think it is the truth,
the fucking universe will slap it on your face every time!)
You’ll become more resilient, focused, and confident, handling challenges better and concentrating on work or studies. Additionally, seeing an escort occasionally teaches your body to associate sex with a reward based on your efforts, not someone else’s approval!
@Tabula Rasa
