Theory One thing i have learnt from experience about meeting women

[Garou]

It has to be organically. What i mean by this is that you cannot see some hot girl working as a cashier and then try and get a job there, women are dumb but they're not that dumb, she knows you're only trying to get into her pants. The only way it will work is if it comes naturally/organically and yes i understand you do need some luck on this since you will be applying to a job and hoping there are attractive young women working there since if you get to know/see them beforehand, they will instantly see it as inorganic and your chances are low unless very attractive and tall.
This has been my experience, i have seen my oneitis and plenty of other girls get with/marry their coworkers because it's all organic, if some autist tries to go to her workplace repeatedly it won't work, she'll see the desperation and be turned off.

 

[6ft4]

Legit, as soon as it seems like you're trying it's over
This is why trying to plan dates with foids who are strangers to you (from dating apps) has such a low success rate
The situations in which you and a foid find each other meeting regularly has to be down to external circumstances, not because you both planned to go there specifically to meet each other.
The "dating market" is dead and buried, it's no longer possible to outbid the competition with having a higher SMV if you're sub Chad or sub Giga Status, foids have received bids from every kind of stranger and they're now desensitized to every stranger

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Legit, as soon as it seems like you're trying it's over
This is why trying to plan dates with foids who are strangers to you (from dating apps) has such a low success rate
The situations in which you and a foid find each other meeting regularly has to be down to external circumstances, not because you both planned to go there specifically to meet each other.
The "dating market" is dead and buried, it's no longer possible to outbid the competition with having a higher SMV if you're sub Chad or sub Giga Status, foids have received bids from every kind of stranger and they're now desensitized to every strangerAlso

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Also foids still want to have a cool romantic story of how you guys met, to boast about to her friends and parents

not muh bumble bro seems low class asf

 

[twojei]

It has to be organically. What i mean by this is that you cannot see some hot girl working as a cashier and then try and get a job there, women are dumb but they're not that dumb, she knows you're only trying to get into her pants. The only way it will work is if it comes naturally/organically and yes i understand you do need some luck on this since you will be applying to a job and hoping there are attractive young women working there since if you get to know/see them beforehand, they will instantly see it as inorganic and your chances are low unless very attractive and tall.
This has been my experience, i have seen my oneitis and plenty of other girls get with/marry their coworkers because it's all organic, if some autist tries to go to her workplace repeatedly it won't work, she'll see the desperation and be turned off.

It doesn't matter if you hide the desperation, it will end up showing up unconsciously through speech and behavior. Do not understimate what the unconscious mind can do, for it shows its claws thoroughly in human interaction.

The solution is to go deep within your own mind and find the roots and the origin of the desperation while still trying to interact with women.

 

[Kal]

Yep, the desperation and creepy nervousness are a very obvious beacon and are extremely unattractive.