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Message: <blockquote data-quote="JayJay" data-source="post: 87146" data-attributes="member: 147">(1) Parenting myself and treating myself as a little child so that the child I was feels loved, secure and special. This is done with the purpose that the unconscious does not look for the mother it never had in any women.[URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/sing-to-your-inner-child-to-heal-trauma-and-access-altered-states-of-consciousness.6736/[/URL](2) Deconstructing psychological projections made unconsciously onto women as they happen. Deconstruct all fantasies and stories of everything involving women. Annihilating and destroying every thought that arises in regards to women. Letting all of them go. No idealizing narratives regarding no woman, no "love of my life", no "destiny", no "soulmate", no anything. Deconstruct the “narcissistic” layer explicitly. Write the precise fantasy of what the other person is supposed to provide (validation, status, fusion, rescue from loneliness, etc.). Then run the counterfactual: “Even if I obtained perfect reciprocal idealization, the neurochemical high still decays and the same void reappears.” Do this repeatedly until the prediction error becomes boring.[URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/destroying-erradicating-annihilating-the-desire-to-be-loved.7759/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/your-type-of-women-is-a-direct-door-towards-your-psychology.5625/[/URL](3) Rigurous and serious meditation protocol so that I can generate my own oxytocin without need of any woman thus teaching the body mind it can regulate itself and feel loved unconditionally. Gradually reduction of desire and self-satisfaction is this achieved. [URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/meditation-to-connect-with-your-emotions-and-induce-altered-states-of-consciousness-beware-giga-powerful.6628/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/meditation-is-the-easiest-way-into-self-love.2142/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/all-of-spirituality-is-cucked-and-cope-heres-what-really-works.9169/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/method-for-self-realization.6016/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/meditation-music-for-neuroplasticity-healing-love-and-pleasure.7849/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/i-think-the-true-meaning-of-self-love-is-that-we-can-generate-the-neurochemical-state-of-love-using-our-minds.2892/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/loving-kindness-meditation-seems-to-be-the-way-to-fight-you-way-out-of-depression.2081/[/URL](4) Strict sexual sublimation dedicated to learning.(5) Celibacy, no pornography, no sexuality, no anything.(6) Avoiding media containing romance.(7) Connecting with all my emotions.[URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/all-of-therapy-is-cucked-and-cope-heres-what-i-think-works.9525/[/URL][URL unfurl="true"]https://elysianfields.se/threads/connecting-with-my-emotions.3843/[/URL](8) Catching desires as it arises and letting it all go. Seeing the desires not as part of my "core" identity but as a desire conditioned by the evolutionary part of the brain which in turn leads to noticing the different behaviours the evolutionary module of the brain engages in for the purpose of attracting a mate like status signaling, dangerous behaviour involvement, and so on. Identity-level reframing. Treat residual desire as a residual evolutionary subroutine rather than a core self. Language like “the organism is generating attraction signals” instead of “I want” reduces identification. Pair it with the technical work you already do; the math/physics/engineering identity becomes the dominant narrative.</blockquote>

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