Personal Experience Protocol for maximum detachment from women.

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(1) Parenting myself and treating myself as a little child so that the child I was feels loved, secure and special. This is done with the purpose that the unconscious does not look for the mother it never had in any women.

Personal Experience - Sing to your "inner child" to heal trauma and access altered states of consciousness.

The most powerful states of altered consciousness have occured right after I have done it. Imagine yourself holding yourself as a baby, and sing to him. Imagine yourself comforting that young child, young teen, young guy you once were. Everything can be imagined. For those of us who have been...

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(2) Deconstructing psychological projections made unconsciously onto women as they happen. Deconstruct all fantasies and stories of everything involving women. Annihilating and destroying every thought that arises in regards to women. Letting all of them go. No idealizing narratives regarding no woman, no "love of my life", no "destiny", no "soulmate", no anything.

Deconstruct the “narcissistic” layer explicitly. Write the precise fantasy of what the other person is supposed to provide (validation, status, fusion, rescue from loneliness, etc.). Then run the counterfactual: “Even if I obtained perfect reciprocal idealization, the neurochemical high still decays and the same void reappears.” Do this repeatedly until the prediction error becomes boring.

Spirituality - Destroying, erradicating, annihilating the desire to be loved.

This "love":soy: emotion... it is something that has to be destroyed:pepebonk::psycho:, erradicated:pepebonk::psycho:, annihilated:pepebonk::psycho:, and ultimately expulsed from the biological system so that the narcissistic evolutive psychological structure that makes a man suffer in regards...

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Discussion - Your type of women is a direct door towards your psychology.

Suppose we have Stacy:tradwife:. The thing is that depending on your psychology, you will significantly more attracted towards different categories of Stacy depending on how she dresses and acts which ends up being a reflection of your own psychological state. Bimbo Stacy Goth Stacy Traditional...

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(3) Rigurous and serious meditation protocol so that I can generate my own oxytocin without need of any woman thus teaching the body mind it can regulate itself and feel loved unconditionally. Gradually reduction of desire and self-satisfaction is this achieved.

Help - Meditation to connect with your emotions and induce altered states of consciousness [BEWARE: GIGA POWERFUL].

Meditation without music is BORING. We need to amp it up. We need EMOTION. We need the fire of emotion to annihilate and utter destroy the old in us, so that we can be reborn as the fennix. Today I meditated and and a moster of fire manifested itself. It represents my ANGER. I talked with him...

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Spirituality - Meditation is the easiest way into self-love.

By meditation, we learn that we are not the voices that talk within our minds. It is the desire for identificacion with them motivated by the desire to not suffer, that which causes us to suffer. The mistake is trying to let the voices be, the ilusion is that you have to try to even do something...

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Success - All of spirituality is cucked and cope. Here's what really works.

(1) LOVING-KINDNESS meditation. Meditation is good, but the practices has the downside of becoming too dry emotionally if you don't involve some feeling into it and that's why loving kindness practices are perfect to open the heart to other kind of experiences. (2) Connect with your emotions...

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Spirituality - Method for self-realization

Method for self realization: Each time suffering arises in the form of a narrative: "I ..." Execute procedure: (1) Be mindful, and immediately note the thought: "A narrative has appeared". (2) Connect with the emotion caused by such narrative and immerse yourself fully into it by using...

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Success - Meditation + music for neuroplasticity, healing, love, and pleasure.

From a long time ago I have experimenting with using music in meditation. The reason why I do this is because highly emotional music, specifically orchestral music, affects me the most since the practice becomes highly stimulating. You can use anything you like though, it just has to be...

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Personal Experience - I think the true meaning of "self-love" is that we can generate the neurochemical state of love using our minds.

Maybe I understand what some people mean when they say that life is a dream or that it is an illusion. From our perspective, everything that happens seems deeply personal, in the sense that we can't seem to do anything but constantly react to life, not make it "react to us". I mean that we seem...

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Story - "Loving-Kindness meditation" seems to be the way to fight you way out of depression.

What happens with depression is that I lose the capacity to feel, and for me, feeling is very important since by feeling meditation it is how I can fight pain, fear, shame, sadness, but when I'm depressed I can't feel anything, so there's nothing to fight. It seems depression is fought not...

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(4) Strict sexual sublimation dedicated to learning.

(5) Celibacy, no pornography, no sexuality, no anything.

(6) Avoiding media containing romance.

(7) Connecting with all my emotions.

Personal Experience - All of therapy is cucked and cope. Here's what I think works.

Grieving, grieving, grieving the life you are not able to have. Grieving what you lost. Grieving what happened to you. Grieving everything, man... You simply gotta cry as a baby, and cry as many times you need. You gotta get in touch with your feelings. It might be the only way to stop feeling...

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Personal Experience - Connecting with my emotions.

I didn't know about the deep emotional world hidden within me, and all the things that were concealed under so many pretexts. As a man, I often wished I were a woman, thinking that only women were allowed to feel intensely. Many times, while consuming weed, the judgmental thought would come...

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(8) Catching desires as it arises and letting it all go. Seeing the desires not as part of my "core" identity but as a desire conditioned by the evolutionary part of the brain which in turn leads to noticing the different behaviours the evolutionary module of the brain engages in for the purpose of attracting a mate like status signaling, dangerous behaviour involvement, and so on. Identity-level reframing. Treat residual desire as a residual evolutionary subroutine rather than a core self. Language like “the organism is generating attraction signals” instead of “I want” reduces identification. Pair it with the technical work you already do; the math/physics/engineering identity becomes the dominant narrative.