Personal Experience Some personal thoughts (A statement of intent)

[incelkingkong]

If women werent trying to hint that they liked you, or even directly asking you out AT LEAST once in school, it’s over. This is the sign of an undesirable man who has a future of betacucking awaiting him if he manages to “ascend”

idk honestly it could be just being coded by media since inception of your life that validation from a female is important to you by movies/media etc. back in older times lower caste men didn't give a fuck about validation from women to be fair, but i think they were all so focused on just surviving and getting bread on the table and not dying that it was less of a priority. now that most of us are living somewhat comfortably it weighs on your being far more. but you could see even in older times that higher caste men (nobles etc) got into very precarious situations over trying to court women that they were in love with, and fucking random plebeian whores wasn't enough for them.
edit: from my own experience, when my health was very bad or i was struggling to barely pay my rent i really didn't give a shit about women much at those periods of time etc cause my mind was so busy on just surviving. hierarchy of needs does play a role in it, but you don't wanna be in that position in the first place, being in such a shitty situation that you don't bother to think about women is not a good place to be either.

 

[Enju]

idk honestly it could be just being coded by media since inception of your life that validation from a female is important to you by movies/media etc. back in older times lower caste men didn't give a fuck about validation from women to be fair, but i think they were all so focused on just surviving and getting bread on the table and not dying that it was less of a priority. now that most of us are living somewhat comfortably it weighs on your being far more. but you could see even in older times that higher caste men (nobles etc) got into very precarious situations over trying to court women that they were in love with, and fucking random plebeian whores wasn't enough for them.

I suppose, but it’s just an indicator of your reproductive ability. Low caste men might have not had a problem getting with women as we do today. A lot also died very young.

 

[incelkingkong]

I suppose, but it’s just an indicator of your reproductive ability. Low caste men might have not had a problem getting with women as we do today. A lot also died very young.

regardless of whether it's coding or human nature, if it was being ingrained to you since childhood that genuine female validation is important, i think it's impossible to change how you subconsciously feel about it no matter how blackpilled you are.

 

[Rikoel]

Just speaking from my experience, I think sharing experiences with someone is important. For me, that's given the most satisfaction. Watching a movie alone is cool, but when you have someone there, it makes it much more special. I know the beta-bux lifestyle is often painted harshly on these forums, but IMO, if you choose a partner who's a mix of a sibling and a friend, it can be really fulfilling. Yes you aren't fucking every day, and maybe it even turns into a dead bedroom, but even then, having someone to share life with seems much better than coming home to an empty house and rotting at 50.

 

[Enju]

Just speaking from my experience, I think sharing experiences with someone is important. For me, that's given the most satisfaction. Watching a movie alone is cool, but when you have someone there, it makes it much more special. I know the beta-bux lifestyle is often painted harshly on these forums, but IMO, if you choose a partner who's a mix of a sibling and a friend, it can be really fulfilling. Yes you aren't fucking every day, and maybe it even turns into a dead bedroom, but even then, having someone to share life with seems much better than coming home to an empty house and rotting at 50.

It’s just extremely cucked that the same girl you are watching a movie and cuddling with, is getting dicked down by some dude on the side. But a lot of these dead bedroom relationships aren’t happy, excluding sex life. It’s constant fighting and the woman nagging, especially if you have kids. desiring each other is important for a relationship

 

[Rikoel]

It’s just extremely cucked that the same girl you are watching a movie and cuddling with, is getting dicked down by some dude on the side. But a lot of these dead bedroom relationships aren’t happy, excluding sex life. It’s constant fighting and the woman nagging, especially if you have kids. desiring each other is important for a relationship

Ye, if that is happening then obviously it isn't fulfilling. LMAO. I get that, but I think for many it can be better if they accept it's not going to be all sunshine and rainbows. But not a solution for all

 

[twojei]

Women would rather gaslight you than try to understand your problems

My mom. Jfl.