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We disassembled the framework for mating rituals

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People are drinking less, they are dancing less, hr policies have tried to completely squash the middle space of sexual play by codifying all behavior into company policy, we have policed langauge to the extent that we have purged the layer of insinuation that allowed for the discrete transmission of sexual signaling, many of the bacchinal-like festivals of yesteryear have entered under scrutiny because there's a drive to eliminate the dangerous ambiguities inherent to human mating, not understanding that spaces need to operate under different sets of rules for the cultural artifice to function, and that we need spaces that ritualistically transgress the prohibitions that regulate the everyday.
 
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People are drinking less, they are dancing less, hr policies have tried to completely squash the middle space of sexual play by codifying all behavior into company policy, we have policed langauge to the extent that we have purged the layer of insinuation that allowed for the discrete transmission of sexual signaling, many of the bacchinal-like festivals of yesteryear have entered under scrutiny because there's a drive to eliminate the dangerous ambiguities inherent to human mating, not understanding that spaces need to operate under different sets of rules for the cultural artifice to function, and that we need spaces that ritualistically transgress the prohibitions that regulate the everyday.
It's more of women aren't willing to play their part in the dating/mating rituals. Women often always give a opening for a guy she liked to strike up a conversation. Asking for help, dropping something, going to the mixers and dances. The idea is give them a opening and then start dating and marriage. However in recent years, women got the idea that it should be like in the movies and books where the perfect guy comes out of nowhere to save her and make her his queen. Thinking she the one out of the million and she deserves the best. Also thinking she have kids in her late 30s and 40s. (The women who were able to do that safely were the ones who were having a bunch of kids in their 20s.) Basically they were feed a lie and though they could be Disney Princess and the Strong Independent Woman. Then shocked no one wants a 40 year old that's the head of HR and can't have kids over the 20 something working at Denny's or the cafe. Also, it's common that many married women aren't willing to support their man. Then shocked after their brothers, sons, nephews and even grandsons seeing this they avoid getting married. Seeing how their mom, sister, aunt, etc treat their husbands. As well as they loose as fuck. If you know what you're doing. You can get a quick one night stand and as long as you're smart don't don't give them your info you can fade without the issues.

TL;DR Basically the juice isn't worth the squeeze and why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
 
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It's more of women aren't willing to play their part in the dating/mating rituals. Women often always give a opening for a guy she liked to strike up a conversation. Asking for help, dropping something, going to the mixers and dances. The idea is give them a opening and then start dating and marriage. However in recent years, women got the idea that it should be like in the movies and books where the perfect guy comes out of nowhere to save her and make her his queen. Thinking she the one out of the million and she deserves the best. Also thinking she have kids in her late 30s and 40s. (The women who were able to do that safely were the ones who were having a bunch of kids in their 20s.) Basically they were feed a lie and though they could be Disney Princess and the Strong Independent Woman. Then shocked no one wants a 40 year old that's the head of HR and can't have kids over the 20 something working at Denny's or the cafe. Also, it's common that many married women aren't willing to support their man. Then shocked after their brothers, sons, nephews and even grandsons seeing this they avoid getting married. Seeing how their mom, sister, aunt, etc treat their husbands. As well as they loose as fuck. If you know what you're doing. You can get a quick one night stand and as long as you're smart don't don't give them your info you can fade without the issues.

TL;DR Basically the juice isn't worth the squeeze and why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
I'm scared of women
 
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No, not yet. I mean, your discussion is very interesting as a "what if scenario". Imagine if incel scientists are able to do what you said. That would lead to some interesting situations.

I am not aware of a complete collection of studies that knows all about human mating. Such a perspective if it existed would be heavy criticized because it would assume humans do all for mating related. And many people disagree myself included.

I am dissatisfied because I dont see what you lament, the idea we are able to predict all about human mating is far from reached.

If we really do reach that point, I think it would open a new age of progress, but there isnt really any interest in this field. I presume people reintroduce mythology and narrative everywhere. Like, incel forums are filled with "ascension" theology and "validation", and myths that we struggle to remove.

I learned in life if you try to erase the normie, they resurface in the places you least expected, recreating again all what you tried to destroy.
 
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