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This video, titled "Why Women that like you
most disrespect you the most," by the channel Attract Girls With Your Russian Big Sister, explains the psychological and biological reasons behind "emotional testing" in relationships.
Core Concept: The "Emotional Test"
The creator explains that when a woman is "disrespectful" (teasing, acting cold, or challenging you), it is often a sign of high interest rather than dislike.
Politeness = Indifference: If a woman is perfectly polite and sweet, she likely feels nothing for you [03:36].
Chaos = Attraction: A woman who has intense feelings often becomes an "emotional hurricane" because she is testing your stability [01:56].
Why She "Disrespects" the Men She Likes
Survival Instinct: Women evolved to test men to see if they are "real" or just "cosplaying" strength. It is a biological way to find a reliable partner [04:04].
Fear of Vulnerability: She may be scared of falling for the wrong person, so she uses "little attitude" as a shield to protect herself [05:40].
Seeking an Emotional Leader: She wants to see if you are grounded enough that her "storms" don't destroy you. If you stay centered while she spirals, she feels safe and the disrespect stops [06:24].
Common Mistakes Men Make
Becoming a Doormat: Being too eager or chasing her harder when she pushes away [02:23].
Becoming an "Emotional Porcupine": Getting defensive, angry, or shutting down like a "broken Soviet elevator" [06:53].
Taking it Personally: Failing to realize the test is about her feelings and her need for safety, not a personal attack on you [03:07].
How to Handle It
Stay Calm and Firm: Use a calm, strong voice to set boundaries. For example, simply saying, "Hey, don't talk to me like that," and then moving on shows you have a "backbone" [09:32].
Hold Your Center: The goal isn't to be perfect; it's to remain stable and not let her behavior dictate your emotional state [08:55].
Watch the full video here: Why Women that like you most disrespect you the most
