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would you attend tabula rasa wedding?

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I will never attend a wedding. I don't want to curse anyone with my envy.
My female cousin is getting married and I was invited to the wedding but turned it down. No reason for me to go there to enjoy nothing and get it rubbed in my face what I never had.

Also they expect you to give gifts at a wedding and the last thing I’m doing is giving my very limited money to sexhavers with good jobs who don’t need it. I’d rather light it on fire than give it to them
 
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My female cousin is getting married and I was invited to the wedding but turned it down. No reason for me to go there to enjoy nothing and get it rubbed in my face what I never had.

Also they expect you to give gifts at a wedding and the last thing I’m doing is giving my very limited money to sexhavers with good jobs who don’t need it. I’d rather light it on fire than give it to them
I too did not attend a single wedding I was invited to.
 
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I too did not attend a single wedding I was invited to.
Based. Only ones I attended were ones I was forced to go to as a kid. But of course it also wouldn’t have felt painful and made me envious back then because I was just a little kid who didn’t even have the need for a relationship or sex back then
 
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That's a matter of subjectivity.
It is not. Love and sex are human needs and without your needs met you will suffer. Even reputable psychologists agree as shown in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

Only people who can be totally unaffected by lacking love and sex are those who are asexual and asocial (both extremely rare). But then again if you genuinely were these things you wouldn’t even be “lacking” anything because you didn’t have such needs in the first place
 
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perhaps there are exceptions like if someone is low T AF and asexual but this is largely cope.
It is not. Love and sex are human needs and without your needs met you will suffer. Even reputable psychologists agree as shown in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

Only people who can be totally unaffected by lacking love and sex are those who are asexual and asocial (both extremely rare). But then again if you genuinely were these things you wouldn’t even be “lacking” anything because you didn’t have such needs in the first place
I disagree. One of the main aspects of the Whitepill is detaching yourself from misplaced desires and cravings.

I've written a lot surrounding this topic, but you can start with this thread which better explains my views.

 
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I disagree. One of the main aspects of the Whitepill is detaching yourself from misplaced desires and cravings.
Thing is though they aren’t misplaced desires. Humans are biological wired to have a craving for love and sex

Those who get these things through the natural flow of life are satisfied and happy. Those who don’t will never be as happy as they otherwise would be had these needs been met

Doesn’t mean you need to be miserable 24/7 and not enjoy anything ofc but you’re never gonna get to the fullest potential of your happiness

Hobbies can only compensate for so much
 
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I disagree. One of the main aspects of the Whitepill is detaching yourself from misplaced desires and cravings.

I've written a lot surrounding this topic, but you can start with this thread which better explains my views.

"Whitepill is “optimistic nihilism,” meaning the individual does not condemn others for their nature, but rather accepts it as reality and improves their own life to achieve the most happiness they can."

ik this and I do my best but the reality is no one who's KHHV would choose to be here over banging girls and that's just a fact. whitepill is just a healthy premium cope but does not absolve our nature as men who desire physical initmacy.
 
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Thing is though they aren’t misplaced desires. Humans are biological wired to have a craving for love and sex

Those who get these things through the natural flow of life are satisfied and happy. Those who don’t will never be as happy as they otherwise would be had these needs been met

Doesn’t mean you need to be miserable 24/7 and not enjoy anything ofc but you’re never gonna get to the fullest potential of your happiness

Hobbies can only compensate for so much
I talk about the biological aspect of sexual urges in the thread I've linked.
 
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Is it the Ignorefu I heard about?
never heard of that. but if I want to maximize my happiness why would I partake in some sexhaver ritual that at best bores me to death and at worst reminds me of what I will never have in life? it's really no different from a person on a diet or a fasting person choosing to eat in their rooms than to dine with their families who are eating pizza while they're chewing on a carrot or sucking air.
 
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never heard of that. but if I want to maximize my happiness why would I partake in some sexhaver ritual that at best bores me to death and at worst reminds me of what I will never have in life? it's really no different from a person on a diet or a fasting person choosing to eat in their rooms than to dine with their families who are eating pizza while they're chewing on a carrot or sucking air.
Yep. I do not care to watch others do things/ have things that I can’t or don’t have. It’s like being in jail and looking through the bars at the outside world you can’t be part of
 
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It was moreso a solemn commemorative occasion but yes I was happy for the couple and wish them well.
I can never be happy for someone who has what I don’t have. Back when I didn’t have the means to do the hobbies I wanted but could see others getting to enjoy what I didn’t have it sucked and I felt nothing but envy.

As soon as I had the same stuff they did the envy was instantly gone since I was satisfied with my own desires. I’m sure the same would apply to stuff like this
 
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never heard of that. but if I want to maximize my happiness why would I partake in some sexhaver ritual that at best bores me to death and at worst reminds me of what I will never have in life? it's really no different from a person on a diet or a fasting person choosing to eat in their rooms than to dine with their families who are eating pizza while they're chewing on a carrot or sucking air.
Of course, the Whitepill is an individualist philosophy, so you always have the right of choice to select the option in life that's best for you.

But another aspect of the Whitepill is the aim of not being so emotionally affected by the Blackpill or being so shackled by female desire. I know this forum hardly discusses the Whitepill and not many users have an interest in it, but a few users including myself have continually explored and discussed the concept during the lifespan of this forum.

This collection of threads might be helpful for you which goes over a number of different Whitepill ideas.

 
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never heard of that. but if I want to maximize my happiness why would I partake in some sexhaver ritual that at best bores me to death and at worst reminds me of what I will never have in life? it's really no different from a person on a diet or a fasting person choosing to eat in their rooms than to dine with their families who are eating pizza while they're chewing on a carrot or sucking air.
Sounds based. I hope you are happy in your path and or not delusional like many cels are at what their chances are.
 
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Of course, the Whitepill is an individualist philosophy, so you always have the right of choice to select the option in life that's best for you.

But another aspect of the Whitepill is the aim of not being so emotionally affected by the Blackpill or being so shackled by female desire. I know this forum hardly discusses the Whitepill and not many users have an interest in it, but a few users including myself have continually explored and discussed the concept during the lifespan of this forum.

This collection of threads might be helpful for you which goes over a number of different Whitepill ideas.

I quite literally wouldn't gain anything from going to normie sexhaver events (I stand to lose far more) and nothing I read would convince me otherwise tbh.
 
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