Anyone else here who never actually encountered much of the blackpill in real life?

[Green Fruits]

I just never see this looks-obsession from women in real life. I remember reading .is posts back in 2018 when I was 17 and it made me wonder where these guys are getting this "Chad only" shit from. They talked about it to the point it almost seemed kinda gay, like they were trying to project their love for Chad onto women.

I'm almost 24 now and my view hasn't changed from when I was a teenager. I travelled since and everywhere I go I see the same thing. Majority of couples are at worst looksmatched. No autistic jaw or height obsession in real life. Just people who vibe with each other dating and being happy.

Only place the blackpill applies is dating apps imo. And it makes sense. On there you're just a set of pics and a few sentences. Obviously women will pick the more appealing profile, considering how fucked up the gender ratio is too.
Since blackpillers are mostly terminally online sewer rotters they cannot differentiate between real life and an app that most normies use to pass the time while on the toilet.
Water.

Anyway, in a way this does make me more depressed though because I realize just how unlikeable I must be. I don't know anyone as unfuckable as me.
Oh well.

The looks Blackpill is a joke.
The way you’re raised, a dysfunctional upbringing and bad location is much worse than being a bit below average looking.

 

[TenzenT]

This is definitely true, I was revealed today that one of my friends who has low t and is what I think to be a little over 3/4 my size (last time I checked my height, I was 5 feet, 8 inches) might get a conventionally attractive girlfriend this valentines day (and the girl made the first move on him).

this is insane, even for me who stayed away from looksmaxxing.org for a long time, the blackpill dont lie, probably prettyboymaxxing, cuckmaxxing, or any beta behavior, its a fact.

 

[TenzenT]

the blackpill is a lot more prevelant than people think, after all its human nature you cant really beat that.

but to answer your question, i have seen a few instances of blackpill in extreme hypergamy in couples in gen z especially girls having height fetishes and stuff

blackpill is reality, now how we think the blackpill is, already another thing

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Blackpill is legit in college and when you’re younger
As you get older women seek out different things in a man

 

[Mentalatte]

I just never see this looks-obsession from women in real life. I remember reading .is posts back in 2018 when I was 17 and it made me wonder where these guys are getting this "Chad only" shit from. They talked about it to the point it almost seemed kinda gay, like they were trying to project their love for Chad onto women.

The extreme looks black pill is shilled by losers everywhere.

 

[Enju]

The ability to ascend largely has to do with being neurotypical or a social outcast (which looks can play a factor in). The sub-5 men you see in relationships irl are being settled for. The whole “sub-8 men aren’t getting in relationships” is cope.

 

[6ft4]

The blackpill is a cope for neurodivergent males who can't make an impression on girls they encounter in their daily life so they fantasize about being Chad because tinder experiments showed them that Chad can get girls hot girls to come straight over for sex.
For 99% of the population, exhibiting certain behaviour matters and is what causes sexual relations to take place

 

[Rikoel]

You rarely see the brutal isolated "blackpill" moments. It's more like an invisible hand. You get fewer invites(not claiming only looks), people show less interest, and it's much harder to stand out. You just feel more invisible in general.

It's hard to pin down this kind of behavior in the moment, but over time it adds up. You slowly become a different person,just because you didn't pass some invisible threshold.

It's not these big moments, just a quiet filtering.

 

[MongoloidJoe]

You rarely see the brutal isolated "blackpill" moments. It's more like an invisible hand. You get fewer invites(not claiming only looks), people show less interest, and it's much harder to stand out. You just feel more invisible in general.

It's hard to pin down this kind of behavior in the moment, but over time it adds up. You slowly become a different person,just because you didn't pass some invisible threshold.

It's not these big moments, just a quiet filtering.

People back in rural communities vs people nowadays in big metropolitan cities
There's less of a close knit feeling and then people more judgemental of looks / superficial

 

[Tabula Rasa]

I think people here are generally aware of looks being the primary mode of sexual attraction but acknowledge that inceldom is a more complex and nuanced issue stemming from multiple factors.

 

[bell]

I can look at a lot of my experiences in retrospect and think that there may be a few blackpilled moments littered in there, but in that respect I would have been worse off learning about PSL forums, so I'm glad that I didn't give them that attribution in my mind. In my earlier years I was basically just an underdeveloped kid, or a latebloomer. I never considered my life to be a tragicomic, unlike some of the "incel" stories I hear, and in all fairness I've seen worse, so maybe things were never that bad for me.

 

[GGWP]

The 'blackpill' is just a bunch of autistics desperately trying to rationalize their own disability.

Yes, many blackpill moments! My life is blackpill!
You will have normies agglutinate together like a gaggle of geese and suddenly lose that sprightliness when they catch sight of you, then it is routine, it is necessity. It's moments like these where you really understand that people are social animals.

Plain ugly people can at least have the nonchalant neurotypical swagger; a placidity of airs, they can turn that ugliness into an 'honest joe' aesthetic, the ever-meandering humble, relatable straggler! This guy—this guy, despite his disheveled visage he is just down to earth, totally chill and part of the pack, but you—the bumbling milksop, erm sorry sweatie you are a hylic lacking the barest human essence! Never the dark horse, always a black sheep destined to disappoint everyone you come across, it is axiomatic, and you're forced to feel it like a masochist...

 

[Maid]

I’ve noticed that these ideas have become a lot more amplified by the internet, often tied to pure delusional thinking that goes even beyond what they were originally meant to represent. I don’t think living life based on a "pill" ideology is a healthy way to go about things either because one pill will always align with your bias and shape your worldview depending on which "color" you're currently resonating with.

I was blackpilled in my early 20s and still relate to some of its concepts, but I shifted toward the whitepill mindset in my mid 20s because constant wallowing didn’t do me any good. If your chosen "pill" has started to harm your life, then you've already lost. Accept your truths, but work on your inner conflicts.

 

[Asgard]

Blackpill is legit in college and when you’re younger
As you get older women seek out different things in a man

Then how come I had around 6-7 relationships/situationships during my adolescence despite having been rated a LTN on Looksmax.org?

 

[TenzenT]

Then how come I had around 6-7 relationships/situationships during my adolescence despite having been rated a LTN on Looksmax.org?

NT maxxed normie

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Then how come I had around 6-7 relationships/situationships during my adolescence despite having been rated a LTN on Looksmax.org?

Probably underrating yourself

 

[Asgard]

Probably underrating yourself

I will admit I am pretty average looking. My Latina booty ex-girlfriend (she stole my virginity... although I don't consider vaginal sex as the main and only step to lose one self's virginity) who's now a hoe with a high follower count on her IG after her adolescent years called me "ugly" when I tried to seduce her again over text. I'm not trying to be a bragging retard here but I'd like to hear your honest thoughts regarding my experience since I can't really pick up on social cues.

 

[Asgard]

NT maxxed normie

I am not neurotypical because people naturally drifted away from me many months after having established social relationships. Would you like to see my medical history dating back from childhood?

 

[TenzenT]

I am not neurotypical because people naturally drifted away from me many months after having established social relationships. Would you like to see my medical history dating back from childhood?

yeah i got zero dates in childhood, my case is so bad that i refused dating (three girls asked me out in middle school), lost my first kiss tho

 

[Asgard]

yeah i got zero dates in childhood, my case is so bad that i refused dating (three girls asked me out in middle school), lost my first kiss tho

Oh, I feel that. I lost my first kiss at the age of 14 because I refused to kiss her (her friends in question pressured me into doing so but I was too childish back then).

 

[MongoloidJoe]

Oh, I feel that. I lost my first kiss at the age of 14 because I refused to kiss her (her friends in question pressured me into doing so but I was too childish back then).

Did you get teen love?

 

[Asgard]

Did you get teen love?

No, I got my first dates a year before the age of 20 (2019). I remember guys back in school didn't have girlfriends, or maybe they did. IDK, most people there didn't make a fuss about girls and shit... but I guess people from America and the UK give too much emphasis on teen love? Maybe I missed it, maybe I didn't. But I was too focused on videogames because I liked playing Fallout and roleplaying games in general. I'm very plain looking myself, so I can kind of fit under the incel-ish label.