Discussion Do you believe it gets better?

[Mathiverse]

I don't think it applies for everyone.

When you are teen it's easier to believe it gets better but as the time passed by i find "hope" to be misleading and harmful

Life would never get better for me, no matter how much i like to believe will, if life were to get better i would have known by now, why? Cuz i experienced it

All my life it was a constant cycle of loneliness, it's just try to make friends/improve etc>doesn't work>cope>and repeat the cycle i never got anything except this and will it actually make sense to expect anything?

I don't know if everyone's life here was the same, but i am curious did your life ever changed? Like you break some cycle you though wasn't possible?

 

[Mathiverse]

bump

 

[Memento Mori]

You just optimize and adapt to it eventually. In the end you might as well play the cards you've been dealt, even if you get a shitty hand.

 

[Schwarzwald]

I don't think it applies for everyone.

When you are teen it's easier to believe it gets better but as the time passed by i find "hope" to be misleading and harmful

Life would never get better for me, no matter how much i like to believe will, if life were to get better i would have known by now, why? Cuz i experienced it

All my life it was a constant cycle of loneliness, it's just try to make friends/improve etc>doesn't work>cope>and repeat the cycle i never got anything except this and will it actually make sense to expect anything?

I don't know if everyone's life here was the same, but i am curious did your life ever changed? Like you break some cycle you though wasn't possible?

it can get better, but nobody's coming to carry you out of the dungeon, you gotta be the one swinging the sword. treat life like an immersive sim: fail runs, experiment with builds, grind side quests for stats. the loneliness loop is real as fuck, but I've seen cracks form after consistent small inputs (lift, walk, skill up) that stack over time.mine broke eventually, not because hope, but because I stopped waiting for rescue and started cheesing the mechanics. what's one tiny task you've tried lately that didn't feel exactly like the last 100?