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Depression How to accept the fact that I'm born a male?

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I always know that I have to keep my mouth shut regarding this topic, but admittedly at times the pain really grows to a point where I can't bear it no more.

I made the mistake of discussing this topic with a psychiatrist a long time ago, and boy do I regret it. This issue has bothered me far more after that than I did before I wasted my time and money on him.

It's jut human nature to prefer women over men, due to our long-standing evolutionary past.

Society accomodates a shit ton of resources to women and almost none to men. People consider women as the divine and men as the gross stupid beings.

How do I accept this fact and live the rest of my life knowing this? It hurts as hell to think that no matter how much I achieve, there will always be that one women whose life will be more valuable than mine.

It's very hurtful to think about how nature gives some people the unfortunate hand. It truly does.
 
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I always know that I have to keep my mouth shut regarding this topic, but admittedly at times the pain really grows to a point where I can't bear it no more.

I made the mistake of discussing this topic with a psychiatrist a long time ago, and boy do I regret it. This issue has bothered me far more after that than I did before I wasted my time and money on him.

It's jut human nature to prefer women over men, due to our long-standing evolutionary past.

Society accomodates a shit ton of resources to women and almost none to men. People consider women as the divine and men as the gross stupid beings.

How do I accept this fact and live the rest of my life knowing this? It hurts as hell to think that no matter how much I achieve, there will always be that one women whose life will be more valuable than mine.

It's very hurtful to think about how nature gives some people the unfortunate hand. It truly does.
Can I say something without sounding like an asshole?
 
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I always know that I have to keep my mouth shut regarding this topic, but admittedly at times the pain really grows to a point where I can't bear it no more.

I made the mistake of discussing this topic with a psychiatrist a long time ago, and boy do I regret it. This issue has bothered me far more after that than I did before I wasted my time and money on him.

It's jut human nature to prefer women over men, due to our long-standing evolutionary past.

Society accomodates a shit ton of resources to women and almost none to men. People consider women as the divine and men as the gross stupid beings.

How do I accept this fact and live the rest of my life knowing this? It hurts as hell to think that no matter how much I achieve, there will always be that one women whose life will be more valuable than mine.

It's very hurtful to think about how nature gives some people the unfortunate hand. It truly does.


Comparing resources and value is what specialized insects do when they want to be a pampered pet of a society they claim is broken. Stop looking at life from the perspective of what you don't have, that’s just mind garbage trying to find stability in a comparison that doesn't actually matter. That is as nice as I could be, I think.
 
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I know I'm not trans, I don't feel like a female. I just hate how we're supposed to treat women as divine beings who can do no wrong, while we're the filthy disgusting beings who are to be blamed for everything.
lol y do u let urself get cortisol spiked by feminist idiots, imagine taking any of that seriously
 
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lol y do u let urself get cortisol spiked by feminist idiots, imagine taking any of that seriously
"You hate women because someone rejected you."

"Empathy doesn't work for men, they need harshness."

"I hate gays because male bodies are so disgusting."

"The West hates women so much that they treat them like sex objects."

None of these statements are made by feminists. What cope will you offer next?
 
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These seem pretty endemic of what a leftist or feminist would espouse
But they're not. Two of them are said by tradcons in fact.

Doesn't it seem apparent how much humans in general, regardless of political views, prefer the female over the male due to them being more reproductively valuable(hope you're familiar with evopsych)?
 
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But they're not. Two of them are said by tradcons in fact.
Yeah a lot of tradcons advocate "pulling yourself up the bootstraps" when they're out of touch with the changes that have happened in society

Doesn't it seem apparent how much humans in general, regardless of political views, prefer the female over the male due to them being more reproductively valuable(hope you're familiar with evopsych)?
I don't disagree with that.
 
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So how do I accept that fact when it bothers me so much? It drives me into depression.
It varies from person to person how much they're emotionally affected by it. It's not something that you can really affect or change on a macro scale.

What's within your control is how you approach it on an individual level.
 
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It varies from person to person how much they're emotionally affected by it. It's not something that you can really affect or change on a macro scale.
It honestly seems that way at this point.

Unless humans collectively became rational and followed what is the more ethical path, there's no way anything can happen.

But that's honestly just mental-masturbation. Humans just can't afford to be rational.

There's no political faction who are willing to lend a helping hand to males, and the MRAs are just the weirdos of society.
What's within your control is how you approach it on an individual level.
I guess that's a good point.
 
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It honestly seems that way at this point.

Unless humans collectively became rational and followed what is the more ethical path, there's no way anything can happen.

But that's honestly just mental-masturbation. Humans just can't afford to be rational.

There's no political faction who are willing to lend a helping hand to males, and the MRAs are just the weirdos of society.
You probably live in a cucked country lol. Just move to Afghanistan theory if you feel so strongly about it.
 
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You probably live in a cucked country lol. Just move to Afghanistan theory if you feel so strongly about it.
Oh boy, you're so oblivious. I have friends from Middle-East, and neither do males over there have it good.

In fact, the prior statement "The West hates women so much that they treat them like sex objects" is said by an Islamist political commentator, and he frequently goes on rants about how the West is the most misogynistic civilization in existence(look up Shahid Bolsen).

I currently live in a third world country and it'd be a blessing to move to the US(IK I'm not doing that because immigration crisis). Here in schools, males are made to strip as punishment.

Human nature doesn't change with country.
 
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Oh boy, you're so oblivious. I have friends from Middle-East, and neither do males over there have it good.

In fact, the prior statement "The West hates women so much that they treat them like sex objects" is said by an Islamist political commentator, and he frequently goes on rants about how the West is the most misogynistic civilization in existence(look up Shahid Bolsen).

I currently live in a third world country and it'd be a blessing to move to the US(IK I'm not doing that because immigration crisis). Here in schools, males are made to strip as punishments.

Human nature doesn't change with country.
Some countries are better than others in regards to men's standing in society.
 
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Some countries are better than others in regards to men's standing in society.
In terms of what I've heard, IG South Korea is somewhat sympathetic towards us due to the compulsory military service which men over there provide + them being foes with NK which is a leftist country. I'm still quite unsure though, but I hope that's the case.
 
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In terms of what I've heard, IG South Korea is somewhat sympathetic towards us due to the compulsory military service which men over there provide + them being fors with NK which is a leftist country. I'm still quite unsure though, but I hope that's the case.
South Korean society has been completely captured by feminist ideology lol.
 
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