Discussion I don't understand why men would want to change themselves to get a gf

[Tabula Rasa]

if i dont rely on society for that. I should be living alone away from society in the woods or sum. Because if one changes it doesnt mean 1000 does. Also isnt society people who have the same interets and “help” each other in a way? If i didnt do that i would feel even more lonely so gotta accept it way it is

nah you are probably just too oversocialized, it’s just being more individualistic instead of being conformist

 

[TenzenT]

Don’t you fear karma will get back to you

Rape and other things only in the theoretical sense , perhaps killing, but only for true evil beings.

 

[johnvee]

Because what they have been doing hasn't been working, they decide they need to make a change, nobody fantasizes about the morbidly obese nerd playing pokemon.

 

[bell]

I don't know, sounds like wokesterism to me.

Also because prepackaged "fix-it-yourself" solutions have been sold on the desire for incel men to settle for women who have whored out, it's either embracing Ali G gymceldom for women who look like Bonnie Blue or becoming a buckbroken lapdog for twink fetishists on X. The whole "conforming for women" thing is just married with "general social etiquette".

 

[GGWP]

What is your advice for autistics?

Give up tbh and try to find an internal sense of purpose.
No point in aiming for respect or dominance because tics and nonverbal conduct of autistics don't mesh with the normie social expectation of faux-nonchalance. Forever a court jester or a quaint milksop, but that is muh Non-NT for you.

Autistic men and schizos have bottom-of-the-barrel fertility. I would say neurodivergents should just give up on 'love', and to be honest I don't envy it because from my perspective female affection is fundamentally Babalon—the ultimate feminine fantasy is to chain an aggressive man and turn him into a lapdog. I think Romantic love is largely a scam and based on males proving their own obseqiousness for mate-assurance. Men will literally pay thousands of dollars to carve new bone structures and hours in the gym every day just to be accepted by women (to a humorous extent now with Looksmaxxing).

I think If you're neurodivergent the advice 'work on your personality' goes doubly, but for your own benefit rather than to appease women. You need to have a fortified, rich, resilient and colorful ego or else you will lose your sanity.