Discussion I don't understand why men would want to change themselves to get a gf

[Tabula Rasa]

if i dont rely on society for that. I should be living alone away from society in the woods or sum. Because if one changes it doesnt mean 1000 does. Also isnt society people who have the same interets and “help” each other in a way? If i didnt do that i would feel even more lonely so gotta accept it way it is

nah you are probably just too oversocialized, it’s just being more individualistic instead of being conformist